My boyfriend can probably feel your pain. If it helps your feelings any, she really can't control this thing. I am scheduled to have mine removed this Friday and I feel so at peace with that decision. My daughter too has suffered and it really feels like I have turned into a monster. Even when I know I'm being irrational, I can't seem to control it. Not to mention all the other side effects. I hope you can get her to look at this site. I have had mine for 3 months because I was hoping the sypmtoms would abate. No such luck!! If anything, they are worsening. I have no energy, tired all the time. Emotional wreck and physically miserable. I can't wait to get rid of this thing!!!