No, obviously not. . . . I was responding to this:
"i know this much, if i were a women i would (knowing man not being a 100% reponsible being) take preventatives, in respect of becoming pregnant.so what does that say about the women who has fallen into that trap (it takes two to tango, but it only leaves one holding the baby),tomi."
You are calling on the woman to take 100% responsibility for something that should be each partner's responsibility because the man is supposedly "not a 100% responsible being". It is the double standard of years gone by. Note that I am NOT saying it is the man's responsibility, just saying it is just as much the man's responsibility as the woman's. If you want to be in charge of your own destiny, then by all means, do it when it counts - BEFORE things get ugly.