I sounds like you and I are much the same. My ex and I more or less have a detente. Yes, I pay child support, and she knows there are limits to her behavior I simply will not tolerate. I have also stood up to the Great Whore (Office of Child Support Enforcement), and the Great Whore chose to back down. I have seen fear in the Great Whore. What I wish to teach men most of all is not to be afraid. Together we can defeat this evil.
It took awhile before you and I could get to this point. The liberals continually try to shout folks like you and I down. In my estimation, you and I have just defeated all of them. When there are a million of us instead of just the two of us, men like us will enjoy the return to liberty and freedom.