I understand what you are saying, Tomi. And, yes, the ultimate responsibility (in reality) has to lie with the female if she does not want a baby because it is her body that gets pregnant. My argument is only that I feel it is a cop out for the man to just say "boys will be boys", and blame the female for an unwanted pregnancy because he is also in charge of his own body and can take steps for the pregnancy to not occur if he does not want it. If a man absolutely unquestionably does not want his partner to get pregnant, it has got to be up to his own self to take the necessary steps to prevent it. If the female does not want a pregnancy, it is up to her to make sure she is adequately protected.