Thanks for your response. I will check out that book. Right now our son is pretty much grounded from everything except for reading books. We really didnt know to punish such a thing, but we felt also it wouldn't be right to not have any punishment at all. I wish my son would be more intersted in sports, but he's not. He's just intersted in music, playing his drums and guitar. I know I need to put a halt to some of the music he likes too. He likes skateboarding, maybe I can take him to a skate park a few times a week or something. I will try to think of ideas to keep him busy. Please pray for our family. God bless!