Thanks for your response. We have been very grounded and deeply involved in our christian church for years. He was brought up this way. He has gone to many christian functions. He is getting older and moving on into adulthood, which means he will develop his own sinful nature. Hopeully, because of the way he was brought up, he will turn to God when his life is such a mess that God is the only way to turn. It hurts to go through all this. Does anyone in this forum have experience with this type of thing?? There is no history of sexual abuse in his life, he just said that he was curious as to how a vagina felt. I think hisa curiosity lead to abuse, and I'm glad that he will no longer be able to abuse our daughter anymore. In the mean time, our family feels divided, there's no trust between us and our son. Any suggestions from others would be helpful. Thanks and God bless.