Re: Sibling molestation
That is terrible, I am so sorry.
I dont have any kids, but i have had a lot of experience baby setting them, kept them, and even had some living with me for a while.
I know that kids are like sponges, they suck in everything that they see and hear, right from birth. Im not a child pschyatrist, but I dont think that it takes one to know to try to keep them away from the negative things of life while they are young.
With the sponge theory, we would wonder where he picked up this habit. I doult if he could have came up with the idea himself, though it may be a very small posibility. He is a teenager now and it maybe a little harder to get inside of him to get to the root of the problem.
I know that there may not be a perfect answer for you now, but at least your daughter is still young. So it may not be to late to keep the negative things from her that has affected your son.
Im a strong believer of a good christian church with many programs set up for kids and youths. My saying is that if you get them in the church while they are young, then you will have instilled God in them for when they grow up.
Get your son involved with a christain youth program that he enjoys and then maybe his mind will partially, at first, turn away from these bad habits. Remember, a idle child is the devils playground.