Thanks for showing us your web site. It was very interesting indeed.
The wife & I agree that there is no way to improve on what we are already doing. She absolutely LOVES my magical fingers giving her those clitoral ogasms that make her scream like a banshee, and that in turn makes her excited to have intercourse to get me off. She would much rather get it off than spend a long time with intercourse. Ditto for myself. That said, she cannot get adequate ogasms without using the SYLK lubricant made from the Kiwi fruit. We just reordered a dozen more 3oz tubes from Walmart. Shop around for the best price.
Some people may prefer your unusual methods but not for the wife & myself,