Re: Women: open to non-sexual relationships?

Glaxony, you wrote, "...but marrying for the opportunity to have sex on a repeated and regular basis is a recipe for failure because then the poor spouse will always feel obligated to do her duty and never have the opportunity to feel inspired

sex that is not inspired gets boring and dull very quickly..."

These words are 100% truth and the Original Poster has an opportunity to learn, here.  When sex becomes rote - same thing, no foreplay, no intimacy, no love expressed physically or verbally, no attention of the partner's pleasure - it does indeed become a miserable exercise in faithfulness and loyalty.  That's it.  It's just an act that has about as much meaning as putting dirty laundry into the wash bin.

Females require care and concern from their partners with regard to sex and heightened pleasures.  This means that their partners need to be patient, calm, and exercise some serious imagination.  Sadly, the viewing of p 0 r n has detracted from that imagination because people literally believe that everything that they need to know about sexual intimacy is played out through these misleading visuals.  Remember this:  p 0 r n is not representative of what healthy intimacy reflects.  So, if you're expecting your wife to be ready to roll with whatever you want, whenever you want it, as you've seen in p 0 r n, forget it.  NO healthy woman is going to be able to perform in that manner.  There are too many variables that you're apparently not considering - overall health and well-being, enough rest, enough energy, strong self-esteem, etc.