Manly Men will take LOVE over spiritualism any day of the week. Spiritualism is for Nuns, Priests, Bible Thumpers, Man-Haters, Weirdos, Wusses and other limp wristed sissies.
A real relationship is based on LOVE and for most normal people, great sex is the natural expression of LOVE between a man and a woman. Always has been and always will be.
Do you prefer sex toys over a real man? Or do you abstain from any form of clitoral pleasure?
God in His great wisdom provided the Clitoris purely for a women's pleasure. It is the only organ in a woman's body dedicated strictly to pleasure. It is ungodly to deny yourself from this pleasurable gift to women.