Re: Women: open to non-sexual relationships?
If you and your partner are happy in a platonic relationship, then you are doing what is right for yourself. Congratulations on finding a partner that is right for you & I am happy for you.
This is exactly why couples should consider their basic libido needs before getting together. Before getting married, the wife & I dated for 2 years to test our sexuality and found that we were very compatible. We have been happily married ever since. Sometimes she initiates romance, but most of the time I am the one in need of her charms.
I don't believe for a minute that most women would be happy without their ogasms. This is why sex toys are so popular with women. This is also why most women choose to have a boyfriend or husband. I know of a couple that has both a sexual relationship and the wife finishes up in the bathroom with a vibrator because her DH does not know how to give her an ogasm. They seem to be happy with this arrangement. I say to each their own for whatever makes them happy.
Have you been on a dating site recently? Dating sites seem to be more popular than ever. I have never seen any listings with a desire for a platonic relationship.
Oh yes, this conversation reminds me of a story when I was a young lad of 12 yrs old. The neighbor girl led me into the bathroom and demonstrated how she spank the monkeyd. "See?" She said, "This is how you do it." I just gawked and probably looked very embarrassed. Nothing else happened.
How old were you when you first started giving yourself pleasure?
Best to you,
Grizz