Let me give you a few tips, according to the National Sexual Violence Survey, one in five women have experienced attempted or completed rape during their lifetime. There is a very interesting article https://newmiddleclassdad.com/prevent-domestic-violence/ in which a lot of interesting facts and details are discussed. In order to prevent domestic violence, there are guidelines that can offer much-needed support to people living with an abusive partner.   [End]
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I Was Sexually Abused By The Catholic Church [Video Embedded Here]   [End]
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My thankful message was intended as a response to the first presentation you posted, for some reason it showed up as a response to the second one. After 25 years of computer forums, one might think these types of errata should not be extant.... cieste la vie   [End]
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Wow, that sure explains a lot of what I’ve observed. Thanks for sharing it.   [End]
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Narcissist, Psychopath, or Sociopath: How to Spot the Differences [Video Embedded Here]   [End]
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Surviving the Female Narcissist: A Deconstruction by Richard Grannon [Video Embedded Here]   [End]
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One of the very important things to remember about an abusive situation is that it is a life-or-death event to leave. Any hint of leaving to any friend, family member, the abuser, the abuser’s ”friends,” mutual friends, or children cannot occur. Nobody should be informed, even though the victim may feel that they need to tell someone. Tell the Victim’s Services advocate or the counseling therapist, but tell nobody else, including the children. Children are the most vulnerable of all and they should never, ever be saddled with such heavy adult issues. Their tender souls and their par ...
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This message had been posted a number of times over the years, and it's always helpful to anyone who might be confused or living within the environment of abuse and domestic violence. Just because special holidays or milestones come up does not mean that an abuser's promise to "change" or "get better" is going to come to fruition. It won't. https://www.curezone.org/forums/fm.asp?i=796401 Read on: "'Tis the Season for victims of abuse, narcissism, and/or sociopathy to be WARY. Holidays are the perfect time for an abuser to act ou ...
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What does this mean? I don’t get it at all.   [End]
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7 Things That Terrify Narcissists To Their Core | Conscious Reminder [Video Embedded Here]   [End]
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7 Painful Truths Empaths Must Eventually Face About Narcissists [Video Embedded Here]   [End]
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6 Strong Signs You Have Narcissistic Abuse Syndrome [Video Embedded Here]   [End]
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Why Narcissists Are So Cruel To You But Kind To Everyone Else [Video Embedded Here]   [End]
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infertility is becoming a problem with many households feeling the heat. several cause to the problem have been cited including the hormonal imbalances(PCOS), the menstrual issues and others bordering on the weak male functions. though lately, nutrition and chemicals have come out, the main cause to me is the PCOS. What is your take   [End]
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OMG!!!!!!!!!! I never taught i can be this happy and healthy again in my life, after 10 years of suffering from this terrible disease called Hepatitis B (Hbsag) disease, but today i can do all activities and even physical fight with my age mates and apply for visa to any country in the world, because i was told that you can’t get visa to any country when you are caring this disease, my visa has be declined severally because of this disease am carrying, help me in thanking this clinic called health med lab for their herbal med they use in healing and curing people, contact them if you are s ...
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www.thehotline.com You are living in an abusive relationship and your children are learning how to be abusive by watching the interactions between you and their father. White Shark is spot-on.  Get out, regardless of money.  Money will not ever buy this man a conscience, nor will it ever buy you and your children safety.  There are agencies and organizations that will help you and your children to get on your feet.  Additionally, avoid ALL relationships for a couple of years after you’ve been legally divorced.  Get involved in some counseling ...
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The answer is yes ... he is a psychopath and a narcissist. He is not a good man, not good to you or to your kids ... and it will get worse. Run for your life while you still have some life! That man is not good for you! WS   [End]
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Hello. I’m in a desperate situation, married since 6 years with 2 children ( 8 m and 3 y). The life with my husband is at the moment a living hell. I want to divorce him but I can’t because of financial reason( he is the provider and I’m a home staying mom) and because I’m afraid I will loose my children duo his lies and manipulation. I’m also in his country with few friends but no family. His family support him and believe all the lies he is telling them. His parents even have pushed me away in our apartment a few days ago, while having my daughter in the arms. I can’t tell nobody about t ...
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.. as I said one day - it’s Enough ONE Woman to Rise Any Man to the skys of Success and it it Also Enough ONE Woman to put Any successful man Down just like that too.. :) We - Women Can Do It All. And Vedas actually Prove it too. :). Woman’s Mind is VERY POWERFUL especially in that one who is Complete, Recharged and Knows her Worth... The one who Can Re-charge her man with that EARTH Energy she Can ONLY Possess and the one being accumulated through wearing Woman’s wear (like skirts, dresses to FEED herself with all that from the Earth; that energy starts Cerculating in a Totally Diffe ...
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Once again, the "holiday season" is upon us and abusers have available countless opportunities and excuses to perpetrate more frequent and severe episodes of domestic violence and abuse against their victims.  Domestic violence/abuse includes:  emotional violence, verbal violence, physical violence, religious/spiritual abuse, financial abuse, and sexual abuse.  Domestic violence and abuse has no cultural, religious, sexua| orientation, ethnic, or economic boundaries.  There is no stereotype or profile for domestic violence to ex ...
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I am SO sorry that your father is experiencing this horrible situation.  He must, must, MUST have legal representation, particularly so that he may be released while awaiting trial.  I don’t know if you are in the U.S., but if your father is in the States, then he has a right to legal representation through court-appointed attorneys.  Once your father is released, he should never be left alone, again.   [End]
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Having been accused and charged with domestic violence, I can only suggest that you hire a defense attorney, immediately .  In fact, you should never have even been arraigned without an attorney present - this is a prioritized imperative.  Whenever anyone is falsely accused, legal representation is vital, whether it’s a civil or criminal matter.  Why anyone would do such a thing is not the business of the accused.  There is no need to know why someone does this.  What the focus should be is that someone DID   [End]
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Right now I am going thru a false accused sexual assaut from a woman I have known for 3 years. I went to her apartment after she ordered cable from me and went over paperwork. I did what I usually do when at a customers house and left. I texted her a few hours later telling her what time her install time was, she replied thank you. The next day, she had the tech come to her house to install and we exchanged text during install and after, she thanked me again and ended it with lol.. 2 days later, supervisor calls me that she reported sexual assault to the tech and now giving a statemen ...
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FBI studies claim that very few rape allegations are false. The methods they used to determine this are not substantiated. Other studies closely following accusations for years find that a lot more turn out to be false. My father is 72 years old with end stage emphysema , he’s on oxygen 24/7 and wheels himself around in a wheelchair. He gets winded doing that for even a short distance. He asked a woman that used to live across the street and her girlfriend to stay with him and help him after he broke a hip in April. They came lived paying no bills , they hid his dishes in their closet alon ...
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I absolutely agree, hence my closing statement ”This is a level that would be of serious concern.”   [End]
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>- never eat anything containing 2700+ ppb of lead I agree but people also need to consider scale. Eating 1 gram of a supplement containing 2700 ppb of lead is about the same as dringkin 1 quart or litre of water containing 2.7 ppb of lead. in comparison, ”101 out of 252 water samples from Flint homes had first draw lead more than 5 ppb” http://flintwaterstudy.org/information-for-flint-residents/results-for-citizen-testing-for-lead-300-kits/ This is a level that would be of serious concern. Hello Parazapper This kind of heads up is just informational at this stage. Ma ...
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.....probably shouldn’t be cross-posted on the "Abused Husbands" support forum page.  Rather, it belongs on the "Marketplace" forum page because it’s advertising a specific product and commercial website.     [End]
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- never eat anything containing 2700+ ppb of lead I agree but people also need to consider scale. Eating 1 gram of a supplement containing 2700 ppb of lead is about the same as dringkin 1 quart or litre of water containing 2.7 ppb of lead. in comparison, ”101 out of 252 water samples from Flint homes had first draw lead more than 5 ppb” http://flintwaterstudy.org/information-for-flint-residents/results-for-citizen-testing-for-lead-300-kits/ This is a level that would be of serious concern.   [End]
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(NaturalNews) Recent tests in my internationally accredited science laboratory (ISO 17025 accreditation, the ”gold standard” of analytical excellence) revealed a shilajit supplement to contain an astonishing 2,700+ ppb (parts per billion) of lead, a toxic heavy metal linked to cognitive damage. This is the same toxic heavy metal found in the Flint, Michigan water supply which resulted in government scientists being charged with felony crimes . The EPA’s limit on lead in the water supply is 15 ppb. The shilajit product we tested was over 180 times higher. The same shilajit supplemen ... [Image Embedded Here]
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Well.......I did contact this woman via an assertive (NOT angry) written message to indicate to her that returning gifts and criticizing / complaining about what was gifted is 100% unacceptable in this country.  I also pointed out that grandparents are held in high esteem to do for their grandchildren as and how they can.  I stated that she needed to contact me using her own email account, or Skype account, or even using her own cell phone, but that my son should not be the go-between. I received an outrageous rant, this morning, from this woman.  It was accusatory, u ...
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Hire an attorney, regardless.  ALWAYS have legal representation when facing criminal charges, especially if they are simply "alleged" and untrue. Good luck to you   [End]
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Hello, seeking help. Received a call from Police today asking me to come down and speak with a detective regarding an alleged sexual assault file against me. I am unsure if I should go to the police station by by myself or get a lawyer right away,   [End]
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Thanks so much, BlueRose - it just is what it is, and there is absolutely nothing that I can do.  Even contacting ICE won’t have much impact because they’re legally married, and that’s how she got into the U.S.  She didn’t come over on a work visa, and that’s enough of a red flag, right?  Now that she’s going to have a baby next month, that’ll be the final thing that she’ll need to finish her task. I did a lot of research on this when this woman’s behavior began to change, suddenly.  Of course, I was verrrrry dubious about the whole thing from the beginning, but ...
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Hi, SS I’m so sorry to hear that you are going through this. Another poster suggested contacting the authorities with your concerns about this being a sham marriage. The appropriate agency to call is ICE. Other than that, there isn’t much more you can do. You expressed your concerns to your son and he didn’t take your advice. At least you tried---that’s the important part. ICE tends to take green card fraud seriously. Plus stories abound about men marrying a foreign woman who is only in it for the green card. These women, at some point, try to provoke the husband into as ...
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Thank you for the input, and I believe that I'm sticking with my intuition, here.  In the past 5 years, I've done some serious personal recovery and realignments of my personal beliefs and effort to remain objective.  The facts are the facts, and my youngest son is overwhelmed by the "possibility" that his sister-in-law "could be" a scammer.  He acknowledges that this woman is behaving very badly, and has behaved very badly in the past. Emotionally, I'm very sad about this situation - it's sad on every level and the baby is, indee ...
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Yes, I believe it to be a scam to bring her family over. The baby is probably not your sons anyway. The problem is the law won’t care who’s child it is. Nothing you can do other than tell your son what you think.   [End]
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I have seen this scenario too many times. She either is trying to scam you for money in the future or plans to bring her entire family to the US when she has her green card. In Jordan this happens all the time. You may just have to back away and allow your son to handle this and fall. Then help him stand up again afterwards. Sometimes we push too hard and lose our sons. I don’t get along with my son’s wife and she caused major problems and he like your son will choose the one he loves. It is illegal in the US to marry under false pretense. If she married illegally to just get ...
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To clarify:  after the woman had contacte my younger son, and myself, she deleted both her FB page and her Skype account, and now communicates with her mother in Russia via some sort of Russian Skype Equivalent. Suddenly, after the complaints, everything was wonderful. During the Skype and FB communications, she asked about my eldest son's past and steroid use and clearly stated that they had been trying to concieve a baby, but had been unsuccessful.  THEN, when she came up pregnant a few months ago, my eldest son said that the pregancy was completely unexpect ...
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Right.  I feel that I "know" that there is something seriously wrong, but I’d like feedback and insight just to affirm my intuition, on this. My eldest son has tried to make a turnaround, but he’s still Borderline, and always will be.  After his second marriage ended, he immediately hooked up with a young woman from Russia, online.  He claims that they met on a political chat board, but I don’t believe that any more than the moon is made of green cheese.  Regardless, he went to Moscow on 3 occasions to hook up with this woman and finally brought her ove ...
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Ham-cereal, I’m so sorry to read about your situation, and I’m sorrier that there are 3 children involved. Borderline ....... has she been diagnosed as borderline, or does she exhibit the symptoms?  There are specific dangers with regard to borderlines depending upon which cluster they fall into.  Some will threaten suicide while others will attempt suicide as a provocation.  Physical violence is not uncommon, regardless of gender. If you are done with this marriage, I would strongly encourage you to become involved in individual / private counseling.  A lot ...
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So I’m leaving my BPD wife, we’ve been married for almost 4 years, together for 8. We have three children together, 5, 3, and 4 months old. As a lot of you may have experienced, your SO with BPD might go through cycles of mood changes and their frequency and intensity will fluctuate depending on the person. Well my wife had been stuck in a cycle for a while, and I’d grown too accustomed to just keeping my mouth shut and not objecting to things I would normally, so as to not escalate an unnecessary blow up. So my wife lets our 3 year old do whatever she wants, including disrespect me, wal ...
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No Zoltrex, not beyond the normal changes in the smell of fecal matter according to what I’ve been eating, and if I’ve had an infection. Colon cleansing I’ve used lots, and gotten much better digestion from, so I’ve written up the best material I’ve come across in the past 8 years I’ve been here. My story’s on my profile page. (found by clicking the user icon/graphic).   [End]
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The live stuff would be most helpful! Especially orally, 2x tablespoons 1 hour before each meal, really helps get the digestion working properly. Betcha there’s instructions for using it for colonic cleansing, but I haven’t tried that myself. I make my own kombucha.   [End]
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Also, what about Apple Cider Vinegar? That has butyrate, so an enema with that, maybe ?   [End]
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Did you ever suffer from such symptoms ? Smell from the anus?   [End]
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No, I don’t reccommend whey powder. It’s a dried food product, only unboiled, liquid whey will have the live probiotics in it. Giving your gut colony straight whey protien is more likely to leave your situation unchanged- it’s much better to have whey as a food! Grape seed extract is an antifungal/antibiotic item. I would search the forums dilligently before trying it that way to avoid making yourself possibly ill. (especially while figuring out how much of it you should put in the enema solution.) I have read and tried using clarkia (parasite cleanse tincture of wormwood, black ...
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I have whey poweder. Will that work instead of whey from pure yogurt ? Also, can I use grape seed extract in the enemas?   [End]
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Probiotics do not only live in the large intestine they Start in the mouth   [End]
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Sounds like you may have introduced some bacterium to the lower digestive tract which has gotten a chance to gain a foothold there. Were your probiotics used orally? It takes /really/ high-concentration probiotics to get them all the way through from the mouth to the end of the line. That is why some folk use probiotic enemas to change the bacterial population in the colon. I’m sorry to hear about the difficulty that has happened to you. Please make sure to have condoms around your bedside whenever you choose to play anally! Even if it is fingers, make sure you are washed thoroughl ...
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It has been about 4 months now. One day I played with myself (anally) and it ended up smelling bad afterwards. I suddenly became constipated and 2 days later, when I strained, the smell became more prominent. I was then constipated for two weeks, and when I did start going to the bathroom, my bowel movements were really pasty and smelled bad. This continued for an entire month, bouts of constipation and smelly bowel movements. But then the bowel movements became normal, but the smell never went away. I should add, that the smell WOULD GO THROUGH THE ROOF after the bowel movements, REALLY i ...
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Cleanse the spirit. Follow Christ and not the anti-Christ (pagan). You seem muddled and confused. Cleanse your body of toxins. You appear to have much work to do. You will not live forever. Get started today. Filter out bad people, as there are many. This woman you speak of should have been filtered out and should never have been allowed to touch your life. That you allowed this, is your own fault. Find out why you allowed it. What is it that you crave and desire that invited the bad? Identify the desire, offer it up to Christ, and do your best to live a clean life that you work t ...
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Wilson, Please post the actual link address. diseaspintcenter.tk cannot be found with google. DPC.com cannot be found by google, either. Grizz   [End]
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Hello, friends this is my newest website. i developing in now currently i am working from this site to maintaning this more knowledging and informative for ohters. so please suggest me how i can more impreccive and knowlegdeble to this site. my site name is DPC (diseaspintcenter_dot_tk) please reply me THANKS WILSON.   [End]
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let me play the opponent here. Abuse is defined as 1) improper or excessive use or treatment 2) physical maltreatment So is a father badly treating his son by punishing him when he rightly deserves it? By punishing I don’t mean excessive physical abuse but just enough to get the message across. I’m a father and my son sometimes will not be goaded into studying by anything other than my inflicting pain on him. I just pinch his shoulder muscle a little and he hates it and then obeys. Before I became a dad I used to think that there were always alternatives to inflicting pain on disobed ...
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In October, I posted facts and statistics about Domestic Violence and Abuse (DV&A).  Because tomorrow is "Thanksgiving" in the U.S., it marks the beginning of the "Holiday Season" for most of the largely recognized religions, as well as cultural observances.  During this time, DV&A is increased at an alarming rate, and there are reasons for this. The abuses that are ramped up during this time of the year typically involved the " unseen " abuses.  Religious, sexual, financial, emotional, verbal, and spiritual abuses inc ...
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Indeed, it’s probably the way you saw your mom treated as well, so it very much influenced what you thought of as part of the ’love’ in a serious relationship. All and all, a challenge to be able to be in a non-abusive relationship. Where would you have learned how, even? To say nothing of what it did to your self esteem, and belief about what you deserve, treatment-wise. Try looking in the prophesy forum, under my spiritual healing thread. I think it’s easier to find in that forum. It’s usually the first group of posts. I’ve titled that post ’A good counselor--not an oxymoron...’ ...
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I agree. I couldn’t find that thread, but I have singed up with two counseling agencies. I’m really quite sure it has to do with the husbands my mom chose. My father is really mentally ill and not treated and treated me like gold while throwing in a lot of hurt. Then my step dad was kind of the same, but after a while just got worse and worse until he started hitting me. I finally moved out, and I still miss my dad. I don’t miss my step dad though :P. I also saw my mom be passive and just take all the crap and she still does, although has nothing to do with my dad, nor do I. So yeah my par ...
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Hum... from a double masters in systems counseling perspective here, I have to say--what trained you to accept treatment like this? It sounds like your desire for sex and connection kept you addicted to her . Like it was said, this is a learning opportunity. But it’s a learning opportunity for YOU. There will be CAM people in the world. They’re everywhere. It’s your issue that makes you way too vulnerable to that type of person. You need to figure out why you need that kind of person in your life. Getting the police to do ’protecting’ only delays your learning, and it certainly doesn’t ...
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Thanks for the helpful comments. To be honest I don’t really care much whether spells work or not. What matters is that she believes it works and after me telling her what I was doing she finally said she never wanted anything to do with me again. If her life is wonderful (good luck with that girl) or dismal it is of no concern to me. Wishing harm on someone out of revenge is not really a useful thing. It’s tempting though but I restrain myself. I think I should seek counseling but I’m not too sure where to go. I guess I’ll look around. I have a nice woman interested in me but I have made ...
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I’m very sorry to read of your experiences. Archus is 100% spot-on.  Voodoo doesn’t work.  Spells don’t work.  Wishful thinking doesn’t work.  The only thing that works to recover and heal are 3 things:  *  "No Contact" meaning NO emails, texts, calls, discussions, or speaking with HER family or friends.  From this day forward, she never existed. *  Patience - allow yourself to feel and process your experiences and then remind yourself that this was a Learning Opportunity so that you can choose a better partner when yo ...
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I am sorry to hear that you went through so much pain in this relationship. You have to take this as a learning lesson. There were too many signs right from the beginning that CAM was insecure, manipulative, narcissistic and you were not able to see that. You were lucky to get rid of her physically, now you have to deal with the emotional baggage. She will be sitting in one corner of your brain and you may see the world through that prism, and go through painful memories. So first thing to do is to accept that you must have had some flaws in dealing with this person and the for ...
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Hi there. So basically, ok well it’s not that basic it’s kind of extensive... about 3 years ago at church I met this beautiful Filipino woman I’ll call CAM (which stands for something but I won’t put it here). So Cam asked me out, and we really enjoyed each others conversation as we texted, talked and hung out. Although we had christian beliefs she was quite into the idea of fornication and very willing. She informed me that she is really jealous and clingy, which alarmed me but I told her that it’s ok. Anyways she got angry often and we got into a lot of fights but I did my best to make i ...
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Once again, the month of October has rolled around and it is set aside as the "Domestic Violence Awareness Month."  Why we need to set aside any day or month to improve awareness is beyond me - this happens each year, and each year the reported cases of domestic violence and abuse has increased from the previous year’s collected data. Here’s what abuse and domestic violence IS, according to various sources: Physical  and Emotional Abuse Pulling your hair, punching, slapping, kicking, biting or choking you Forbidding or preventing you from ...
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Neveragain. I have been in a few relationships with violent women and sadly the first was my mother which set the pattern for my life. A lady friend told me that I gravitate towards this type of person because it is familiar as it is how I grew up. The lad is behaving the way he is because his mother allows him to and more than likely encourages him. Not only do you have to get out but you have to take your children with you as they will more than likely become victims of her spite if they aren’t suffering it already. Your move must be secret and well planed. Remember the old saying ” hell ...
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There’re no borders for feelings, no limits! I know that thanks to the perfect site https://kovla.com/datings/us/sunol-midtown/ where I found my husband!) Here anyone can meet cool people who want to communicate and create their happy family!) I’m sure that you and your woman will be happy and will overcome all the obstacles! I always tell my hubby ’we’re team’ when we’re in trouble. Now I live in perfect harmony with my loved man and I thank to the fate that it brought us together with this site!) I wish you good luck and I assure you that your life depends on you fully! Take care of it ...
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I am so sorry to read of your terrible grief and your subject title asked for "advice."  I cannot offer you any advice or answers as to whether you "should" or "shouldn't" do anything or whether the woman in question did the "right" thing or not.  And, you cannot know what is the "right" thing for her do decide, either.  Only she can make decisions for herself and her children, regardless of whether those decisions are "good" or "bad."  Have you ever met her husband?  Have her sons d ...
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What a messed up world is this!!!! Oyvey!!!   [End]
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After a failed marriage and going through a lot in life. I longed for a second chance. A second chance at life and a second chance for love. It’s tough being alone in this world without being loved. That’s where my story begins…….. I came to this beautiful country to study and to start a new life. Few months down the line, I met the most gorgeous woman. She was 41 with 3 teenage kids and me 28 with a one year old that I unfortunately do not have the privilege of seeing or even getting news about from my ex wife. Age was just a number. The love we had just out of this world. We could stare ...
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its a witch hunt. in the uk if a man is convicted of getting a girl drunk and having sex with her it can be seen as rape. and is punishable by life in porison. his accuser? is rewarded by a financial payment over £10,000 if an accusation is made (however spurious) that gives the police an obligation to search every aspect of your life and home. to take your dna. at interview you are arrested and confined in a cell (even if you asked to or arranged a voluntary interview) the place they do it is a holding cell not an interview room in a reasonable manner in a police station. ...
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To address each individual who has experienced the betrayal of such allegations, I offer my most sincere compassion - being falsely accused can create a lifetime of misery, as we often see in the news.  There is no simple or easy way to just "let it go" when someone commits such a grievous betrayal, and it takes time, effort, and a lot of discussion to sort it all out.  Why do people do these types of things in the first place?  The answer is that they do them simply because they can.  If someone is willing to falsely accuse another human being of ser ...
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Thats my story but me and the girl was of age she was 1.5 years older than me now my life is f***ed up   [End]
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I was accused of rape by my ex girlfriend several times but i stayed with her then she used the false alligation to her advantage she was actually cheating on me and i think she made these alligations so that she didnt feel bad cheating on me but from breaking up with her i have developed depersonalisation disorder look it up it is horrible and i also have developed anxiety that was 3 years ago but since then i have not been able to actually ask a girl out since i have these problems she has ruined my life and i wish i had never met her   [End]
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So, each year I post information about Domestic Violence & Abuse (DV&A) on Curezone with regard to what most people refer to as “The Holiday Season.”   While it is a statistical fact that reports of domestic violence are reduced during this time of year, what isn’t reported is that the emotional, verbal, spiritual, financial, sexual, and psychological abuse is ramped up, times ten. Why is that?   Well, there’s no simple answer to that question, but there are many reasons that abusers find to use “The Holiday Season” to their a ...
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I agree with Bob about doing a parasite removal. Kroeger makes a good one with wormwood, green/black walnut, clove hulls, malefern. I think Now makes a good one too. I also have debilitating brain fog and have tried many supplements that help - a little. I am in the process of doing a parasite cleanse but I waneted to go further so I hired a brain fog specialist online who I just met with last week. He put me on the following (but you may need something different): MCT Oil - 1 spoon a day - (could be a problem is you have asthma. I do but am tryi ... [Image Embedded Here]
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I am a survivor of narcissistic abuse. I was in a marriage that lasted 22 years that bore 4 children. I am thriving and no longer a victim. I will not take anybody’s abuse in anyway anymore. I’m fully self confident and after 4 years I’m in a new and thriving marriage to a wonderful and bright lady. However my children have been turned against me and each other. One daughter is also a narcissist, worse than her mother. I have come to accept that I cannot help them as they do not want help, though they are all messed up. To recover there are several steps. If you fail in one, yo ...
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As my self have posted probibly to meeny times now saying the same things, I to can say this has changed me as well for ever. Even when it is faulce one wold think there should be no worry, however this I think is one of the most dangerous alligations that can be made against another in that the sopposid victom is not on the line for enything. If you did the actual crime you should be admonished, and if you did not and I know what this is like, how ever as there has been menny the media has reported in the last mounth close to home even i when herring of them cringe and emedeatly think o ...
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This is going to be damaging absolutely to the child as it will direct the life of the child, it also realy affects the accused and all others directly or not involved in that the adult will loose eny or most of there credibility as there will forever be the dought in the minds of others around them the child though I can see alwys feeling the gilt of the lie as children don’t remain children and will learn as we all do that the Easter bunny is not real so will be the same of the lie if it is and if it is probibly not perpetrated by the child just blindly repeted. There are whay to menny n ...
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Yes I agree with you I have posted here as well and you are exactly right in the emotional reaction, I have no pity on those who wold and have commited the crime, however how do you know unles God forbid there is physical evedance to show that a particular act has occored. As I am going through this as an accused. And there there is no crime there was just susspition of a person with a sic mind, this spilled over into the soposid non victom of the crime. The only crime that has been committed here is the mental hijacking of a child by a sic minded parrent. By the constant probing as t ...
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I thought the same. As of my arest I now see that it is really quite prevelent in fact. As I can tell you I did not touch eny child or adult inaproporeatly in my life nor have i ever spoke inaprorpreatly with ither, but as you mentiond that in most cases even thouse that have offended will say the same. This is what makes this realy hard to take even though the alleged offence did not ocourr there is no realy whay to prove this and even if it is ” proven ” in court to be faulce or real, there is realy no possable whay to know for Shure as even if the supposed victom swairs that it did ...
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October is National Domestic Violence Awareness Month Someone, at some point, determined that October would be named as the national "Domestic Violence Awareness Month" in the U.S.  Here are some statistical facts about DV&A: 90% of all DV&A occurs in front of children 60% of all DV&A occurs in the home or dwelling 1 in every 4 homicide of a female is committed by their intimate partner 60% of female teens have experienced violence or abuse by their intimate partner 40% of all teenagers (male and female) know someone who is bei ...
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This was really helpful. Thank you. My ex husbands lawyer encourages the alienating behaviors and tactics, and he eats it up, he was good before but this attorney has websites written about him and his encouragement of ’destroy your ex’s relationship with the kids’. I’m not proud to say I have not been as close lipped as I should have been (because I get accused of keeping info from him, even when he’s asking about things not related to the kids) and shot myself in the foot or basically handed him the gun to do it to me. Thank you. This is thoughtful advice.   [End]
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Yup sounds as if you are or have been through this. I am seeing and feeling the same things And you are rite nobody cars accusation jail bail trial child repeats the education given by first mom then the police then a place called zebra where she/he will get a forensics education administered my well meaning People mired in dogma and rhetoric that a child wold not lie about such things, a d there you have it a child victim of the system there to protect and the conviction of an innocent person. As once accused of course you will lie to stay free. But then what dose the in Innocent do. ...
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I am currently a waiting trial for a sex crime that just did not happen, and was brought on the behalf of my niece by a sick minded mother, not only is this screwing with my head. It is also going to dew the same to my niece. I’m facing time for acts that did not nor wold have ever happened how ever now dew to an education and the need to pleas her mom my niece will have to live with her lie when she can understand what her mom did to her. So not only dose sexual abuse happen and when it dose it should be punished. However. When it is tot it still becomes sexual abuse and thous that ga ...
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You say you are all lovey dovey and an adoring husband with the flowers and poems and stuff. Honestly so are abusive husbands between the bad times. You mention you have hurt her in the past. It could be that you are still in need of healing in the relationship and she may not yet trust you. Poems and flowers are swell, but if they are just used to make up for previous bad behavior there may be no trust and emotional safety to make them feel genuine to her. You need to communicate with your wife, however you two can effectively and safely do that. She might have closed her heart to y ...
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Thanks for your advice , it’s appreciated.   [End]
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I'm sorry that this happened.  Sadly, adults often view children as nothing more important than tools to control and/or manipulate.  When people separate/divorce, it should be a criminal offense to include innocent children in the business of their adult parents.  But, it isn't a crime, and the only way to approach this issue is to separate all emotions/feelings from the equation.  Having typed that, this does not suggest that you and your husband don't have feelings and emotions about this (and any other) situation, but those feelings and emotions ...
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I typed this before but I don’t think it posted.We had a 13 year old over for a sleep over with our 10 year old girls who are stepsisters.Our girls were in the shower and we’re being loud and silly so I sent my partner to tell them off. He knocked on the bathroom door and his daughter opened it . This 13 turning 14 year old girl was in the shower with our girls... We didn’t know this. When the door opened she stuck her head out from behind the curtain and that is when my partner pulled the door shut and told them off through the door. The reason I know this is I’m not proud to say but I wa ...
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I am impressed that you own what you did. My best of luck and my prayers for you in re-establishing a life - a good life - with your husband! :)   [End]
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Read five languages of love by Gary Chapman   [End]
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By your own admission, you were drunk and acting a braggart about how tough you believed yourself to be. If you are that terrified of the woman that knocked you out, I strongly encourage you to engage in some counseling therapy, ASAP.  This will help with your shame along with helping to address your overwhelming need to express such grandiose machismo. Good luck to you.   [End]
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I was having a drunk evening with my mate and a couple of girls. It was going well and we headed back to the flat I shared with my mate, taking the girls with us. I ended up in my room alone with one of the girls and I was talking to her about how tough I am etc., trying to impress her. I’m a doorman and can handle myself. She was saying I should be careful when I’m out and showing off or being aggressive because it can cause trouble. I laughed at this and told her I was ’unknockoutable’. She laughed at this which made me mad so I started pushing her and inviting her to hit me if she thoug ...
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Now your wife is wrong in what she did but something in your explanation shows me someone who probobly wasn’t the easiest to live with The fact you knew how to do that stuff tells me it’s not the first time. I would say cool on the sexual needs as if she doesn’t want to its actually rape. But no contact with N is a given. That should have been the first rule from when the counselling started. You need to find ways to move on not get revenge   [End]
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How does she respond to these questions? Have you trued backing off but letting her know you need more?   [End]
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Isis, I read your other post, are these people your father inlaw and you had over to his house your dates? Are you trolling here because, I have to tell you I am angry for what you put your husband through.I can’t imagine in what universe this would be ok.   [End]
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Issis55, I am confused, people were invited to his and your house and he is expected to leave? That doesn’t sound right to me. I am missing something important here because it seems perfectly reasonable that he not allow that.   [End]
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My husband was never needy, just denied, his family and myself tried to cut him out again yesterday, we thought people that we invited to my husbands house were more important than he was, we assumed he would compromise and leave until we called him home. As is said to assume makes an ass out of you and me. He destroyed traditions that we built over thirty years without him. We just never included him in them, screamed, cajoled, acted hurt, cried and out right threatened violence on his person if he did not work every day 12 hours, we did not allow him a life, we thought we were doing the ...
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It’s too late for most of us when we finally figure out what we really have been dealing with. We have already given out information that they can twist and use against us. In hindsight, I would be very careful about what I disclose to coworkers. It’s hard to believe that some people are so dark, but they are. Follow your gut.   [End]
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Good Christian, I PMed you about checking out Athol Kay’s blog and forum. There are hundreds of men there going through the same issues. His books and blog directly address what your going through. I hope you find your way there. Good luck.   [End]
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Hi Victorias, you should check out the blog and forum from Athol Kay. His work specifically addresses this problem. I don’t know if it is too late for you and your ex but at least the information will help you both from making the same mistakes.   [End]
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I had the same story with my ex husband. He was too lovey dovey and at some point i got so bored of it. Our relationship started sinking and ended up with divorce. He was my high school sweetheart and i really did love him, but something about him as a man just stopped working for me. I wish i would try and fix it and talk to him about it. But i was stupid and kept thinking it’s his fault and that he is not a man enough. But it was really the opposite, he was a man who tried to make it work, maybe not in the best way but his intentions were the best. I was an idiot and i’m really regre ...
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GoodChristian, I sent you a PM to your inbox. There are a lot of guys like us and you can turn this around by finding the guy she married and fell in love with. Be that guy again.   [End]
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