Re: I truly despise my mother. I really do. SO PREJUDICE!!!

I have been thru being a student an am now a parent. I know both issues.


>Yeah, thank God I am not because I don't think I've formed myself to the point of being able to create and raise another human being.

no one is ever formed to the point etc.
NO ONE EVER.
that is why being parents is not a theory to learn before practice.

> and I DON'T look down on young mothers...I'm just glad its not me and a lot of women would agree. You can't say thats judgement, its preference!


then give me another word for it, you who are so good with words, and keeping things vague...

>Furthermore, you're telling this girl to not focus on herself? She already seems emotionally unstable, so she should therefore go and raise a family feeling the way she feels about life and herself? Of course she lacks love and is not able to give any...so that is purely why she needs to focus on herself, and changing her attitude and what needs to be altered in her life. Relativize her point of view? First of
all, I don't think you can use that word in that context but in order for her to alter her point of view, she needs to focus on whats wrong within herself...

OK you're right.
you make lousy corrections
are you a student or an english teacher?



>Not everyone waits till they're 40 to have children!!! But they do wait till they're educated and secured in a job...so just because I am getting my education now in my early 20's, I'm doomed to be unmarried and not pregnant by 40? Give me a break...


You should not ask ME for a break , ask life for it. it just happens to be too late,
as it happened to many people I know.
I didn't say anything about YOUR choices. but 'children can wait' is just bogus they want women to believe. scroll the page and go read some good post about Lies of Feminism on this page.


all these "wise talks" , children can wait etc., seem to me just a business to make working class people lonely and unhappy, and still working hard to reach their 'happiness' .>>>

>So you're saying its wrong for society to deture women away from pregnancy before they are ready?

If you listen to them, you will never be ready.

>And while you may be an exception, many women aren't ready at 20 or even 25!

their bodies craves for pregnancy since they're about 18,( why do you think there are so many cases of PCOS in young women) but they were taught that childbearing is a burden, so they act like teens until they're in their late 30's.

>Lack of financial support may still be a problem when you are surrounded by loved ones because some families don't want to pay for their children's children! I definitely don't want my mom supporting me and my baby when I have one, I want to be able to do it myself, as an independent individual.

it's yr choice and you do not have to explain/justify it to me.

>I think it is EXTREMELY unfair for you to compare having children with the support of family to being painful and lonely?!?!?! That's ludacris to say that if you're not having children, you're in pain and lonely. NOT EVERYONE WANTS CHILDREN RIGHT AWAY.

I didn't say that, calm yourself down.

>You can be successful and single when you're young...thats what being young is all about! Being able to go out and have fun and at the same time not have to worry about anyone but yourself!!!

this 'young people'and 'have fun' talks are plain ideology to me, it seems to me that you're victim of a huge deception. the same about being 'single and successful'.

>I'm sorry but those wise talks are beneficial to me and A HELL OF A LOT OF women and I sense that you might be a bit jealous of your sister because you are BLATANTLY LOOKING DOWN ON WOMEN WHO DON'T WANT TO SETTLE DOWN right away...claiming that all of us are going to be lonely and sad..thats a generalizationg that is NOT TRUE and really makes me mad...

if it makes you so nuts, you should sit down and wonder why.
maybe deep in your heart you already know what the truth is.
look around,when women get 30, none of them is 'successful' anymore,
so then they try to 'settle down' ( by your own words of despise!), but often they find out it's too late.



>Ok, with all due respect to your sister...NOT ALL COLLEGE STUDENTS ARE PAMPERED AND HAVE HEARTS AS COLD AS STONE...

Indeed,I didn't say that.


>I see you as a very close minded individual and I really hope you aren't teaching your children that being indpendent and not rushing into parenthood means that they're going to be bad people!!! Because it is SO NOT TRUE...

I don't believe so. I wasn't talking about parenthood, but about ALL true/close relationships, which are not compatible with being " single and successful", nor with "having fun".
I said love is the only thing that makes life worth living, and posponing it is a tragic error. I do believe so. I do not judge anyone. People who "want to have fun' are very sad people. Period

>I can go on and on but its just going to make me more angry and frustrated because your responses are so unintelligent its not funny...


you're offensive and not actually trying to understand the things I wrote, Moreover, you're full of hatred.

I pray for you .

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