Hey, #4715....this thread took off, but I kept thinking that I wanted to go back and respond to you (I think it was you) and did not because things went a different direction.
I think it was you who mentioned COMPASSION. I'm sorry if what I said made you think that I was not compassionate or wouldn't place first priority on that. If my words were blunt or harsh, for that I also apologize.
Compassion is paramount! So right about that....some of the first posts in this thread seemed to that proverbial 'sh-t or get off the pot' GET OVER IT and stop being selfish sort of thing. That wasn't me and is not at all how I look at it. I wanted to clear that up....