Re: I truly despise my mother. I really do.

Ok, while I do agree with most of what you said.

These statements bothered me:

wake up, you're 22, you could have a family of your own already, instead of hiding in yr room 24/7 and being jealous of a teen. I was already pregnant at yr age!>>>

Ok, she should definitely strive for more than what she has at 22, but it doesn't mean that she should pregnant or married with a family.

I'm 21, soon to be 22, and I'm a full-time college student who has 1 year left to getting a degree. While I don't look down on mothers who have had children young, I don't think she should be made to feel bad that she isn't in that category. I'm sorry, no offense, but I think a lot of women would rather be educated than knocked-up...

Trust me honey, the children can wait... you can focus on YOURSELF as an individual (your intellect, your maturity, forming your personality, belief system, and goals),and LEARNING HOW TO SUPPORT YOURSELf financially before having to think about supporting a family. Forming yourself now will prepare you to be a better parent in the future.

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