Good for you, Molly! The symbolism of your reaction to your ex is thoroughly perfect and so telling - it was probably the first detox you ever experienced!!!
I actually got pretty tearful reading about your ex destroying your years of artwork. I know that I've read it, before, but his actions were so vile and they will earn him a Special Spot in Hell. He not only destroyed your work, but he attempted to symbolically destroy your Artist's Self - the rat bastid...
It's so wonderful to read positive posts where people get out and evolve. Thanks, Molly, for always encouraging and supporting folks by giving of your Self.