”If you are afraid of being criticized or put down by others, let them know about these fears, and understand that their criticism reflects their own insecurities and fears.”
In my experience, if I suggest it’s not mine, but theirs, they take it as critisism, and just say it’s MY insecurities and fears. It seems if they are more forceful, I become more emotionally depleted. I’m introspective, self reflective, probably TOO sensitive, and I try so hard not to intentionally offend, and it happens by trying NOT to offend, I do anyhow. If I finally get angry, I feel I’ve lost...I’m reacting, ...
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