To be Happy one thing I need is.... ☝ . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . .. Myself 💚. .. Because Happiness is not obtained from outside. It is INNER.. and for that you do not need someone. You need someone to SHARE it with them!.. I know most of life perhaps the majority of us got to believe that it is something another person can give us who is our close friend or the one we Love.. but the Truth is we do not need someone to be Truly happy we just need to learn how to be Happy whether we have that someone in our life or not. Ones learned we just Can SHARE it but no ...
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You know... a few years back or even up till recently I got upset and I did not feel happy when a man told me about his feelings and I could not feel the same towards him.. and it made me double sad when I saw his sufferings.. Not gonna hide.. it flattered me in a way but, at the same very time, I have such Nature, I do not like to hurt anyone or break someones heart.... .. but yesterday I suddenly Realised that all those years I simply was trying to take Responsibility for that ’feel’ of a man on My shoulders saying: I do not want to hurt anyone, do not feel that.. better not to... and ...
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Strong bump here but OP, did he spend most of his time with you and at some point made you the center of his universe? From what I could tell, he did. This my friends was a result of a clear lack of sexual polarity, often because the guy makes the mistake of putting the girl first instead of his own mission. Women hate that. Sure the sex may have been great at first but if the guy makes the girl #1 and always wants to spend his time with her, who cares if the sex was good or bad, she’s not going to feel the polarity and in turn she won’t feel like having sex with him and when they do h ...
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everything become beautiful, even if you hate the place before then that place become like paradise if they are in it. you see the word very flourish, very peaceful place to live everything they do seems like paradise I love them,   [End]
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I think you are in love. When someone is in love then everything feels lovely. If you love your boyfriend so much then his bad things also seems lovely to you. This is really an amazing feeling.   [End]
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Why everything become beautiful when you love someone even the songs you hated, it become wonderful when they plays it....?   [End]
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Mr. Lost - I know what you are feeling... I have never had much of a partner in my life, despite the fact that people generally like me, I am attentive and engaging, etc etc. Then a few years ago after a long dry spell and sinking deep into depression, I met a woman and right away my mood brightened. Everybody could see it. I just feel good to have someone to share my days with. It turned out that she was an expert tease who was enjoying my money. She went back to her regular boyfriend [details omitted]. Okay it wasn’t real love... but there is something about EGO and SOCIAL ...
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Hi,everyone. I am a new visitor for this blog post.I am an astrologer by profession.   [End]
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come on, please go out. talk to women in the supermarket, on museums water parks, festivals etc. wht are interested in? go for that and if not pretend you are interested in something and talk to woman. are you afraid of being husrt or rejected? cooking classes, yoga classes,history classes, personnal development. trump supporters, trump haters. whatever!   [End]
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The Freemason Police Force.. http://www.drlwilson.com/ARTICLES/RAPE-HEALING.htm http://www.drlwilson.com/ARTICLES/RAPE.htm http://www.drlwilson.com/ARTICLES/VICTIMHOOD.htm   [End]
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if you go to police station and complaint about him, the police will definitely 100% take action against him. just report to police, rest will be police matter.   [End]
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h t t p s : / / y o u t u . b e / r G A - f u t P U E s ”Swami Brahmdev is a spiritual teacher, and yogi, and founder of the Aurovalley Ashram located in Uttaranchal, India near Rikishesh. He has dedicated his life to putting the teachings of his mentors, Sri Aurobindo and The Mother, into practice both for himself and for his students. He was born in 1955 in Jammu, India. After studying Law and Economics he started a spiritual search that took him to Pondicherry to the Sri Aurobindo Ashram. After a year stay in the Ashram he received an inner call that led him to the Himalayas to cre ...
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Yes, it’s possible. Below is from wikipedia under Rape_of_males It is thought among the public that a male must be aroused if he gets an erection or has an ogasm, and so that means that they are willing and enjoying any sexual activity. Roy J. Levin and Willy Van Berlo wrote in an article in the Journal of Clinical Forensic Medicine that slight genital stimulation or stress can create erections ”even though no specific sexual stimulation is present.” An erection does not mean that the men consent to sex.[28] Males can get erections even in traumatic or painful sexual situations, a ...
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I’m prone to anxiety and depression. I’m bipolar. I’ve attempted suicide so many times that I’ve truly lost track. I’d say at least 25 times. I’m on psych meds. Well, I’ve been doing really well for months now. We quit drinking about 10 months ago and things have been so much better! However, I’ve been gradually going...d...o...w...n. So, the other day I bought some nips. While he was in the shower, I mixed some with juice and powdered cinnamon and cloves. (I use a lot of that for another stupid problem I have.)   [End]
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Off topic.  If your childish remark was directed towards me, that is about the most hilarious comment I've seen a long, long while!  LMAO!!!!!!!!!!!!!!  Funny, dude..........funny!  LOL   [End]
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And shallow unhelpful advice from such wise fellows as you is better? I’m in a commited loving relationship IRL from a meeting on the excite website before it failed. When you become the right person, it happens in any of the venues mentioned below, or even at the grocery store. Fix yourself. That’s the one long lasting real answer. My free advice as a masters level clinician in systems counseling, one for organizational development, one for family counseling.   [End]
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Here’s where the women are. Yoga classes-try one or two, you won’t be the only guy. Dance classes. Women love to dance. There are great beginner classes. One male friend of mine said it was like shooting fish in a barrel. Volunteering- for almost anything. Women are civic minded and want to help. Night classes. They are everywhere and women go to them because they are lonely too. Ask your friends to set you up. Make the effort to go on at least 3 dates with a girl before you decide to dump her. Cafes & bookstores. Find a wing man and go trolling in these places. Dress well, be well ...
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Such a beautifully written article even though in reality many men will not follow this suggestions :) I’m very lucky to have a very loving husband who always put his family and I first. But even with that due to my own parents who didn’t get along during most part of their marriage, so I didn’t have a good example to follow when it comes to my own marriage. Thus it took a lot of trial and error for me to learn to make my marriage works, and I’m still learning, good thing I’ve a husband who is very willing to make the marriage works. Recently I came across a free ebook teaching people how ...
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Dude whatever you do don’t take advice from single unmarryable women over 55.   [End]
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Lostintheworld, the above response is insightful and factual, on every level.  Going onto dating sites will not solve whatever is going on because everyone on those sites is putting forth information that is typically untrue and designed to generate responses.  Plentyoffish.com is a repulsive site where sexual "hookups" is the main goal.  If you’re interested in sex, only, save up your money and head to a well-managed bordello or "escort" agency and keep in mind that it’s a business transaction regardless of how you might "feel" about the es ...
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I’m guessing you don’t really project confidence or emotional self reliance. People can feel depression miles away and most women kinda want to stay clear--unless they’re really codependent and end up wrapped around you like a sausage casing--not really a relationship, just a security blanket. But if you consistently fail at something despite your ’desire’ to be otherwise (like weight issues for example), there’s also a chance you, on an unconscious level want to fail---for one thing it’s safer than getting your feelings hurt by a failed relationship. Since it’s very true that you do ...
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Grizz, Thanks, I’ll take you advice into account. I’ve tried plenty of fish a while back without much luck but I’ll give it another shot and see if I have better luck this time around. And I’ll take a look at that article as well.   [End]
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White shark, Ive tried out a bunch of date sites and on the majority of them I just keep getting a bunch of messages from bots or links to sex cam sites. Occastionally I might. Get a real person but the conversation always dies when they find out that I live too far away from them and they are looking for local interests. I never seem to live close to anyone. I haven’t tried dance courses but that sounds like an interesting idea and I’m 27 going on 28.   [End]
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It’s your life...do what makes you happy. Whatever it is that you have passionate feelings about is your career. If you are concerned about the environment start a company that helps, like recycling. You dad only wants you to be happy and not a street beggar. He knows what careers are long term and pay well. He wants more for you than he had. Don’t limit your thinking. But keep in mind that math is the universal language. You are not good at it because you don’t see the connection between math and everything else. Learn to see math in everything and you will end up loving it.
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Don’t wast another minute. Go on Plenty of Fish. com and start dating everyone you can. Take them to lunch or dinner, a movie or take them dancing at a club, even a walk in the park. You will meet someone you like, guaranteed. http://www.pof.com/inbox.aspx DON’T BE FUSSY ! Fussy people never get to 1st base. If she is willing to go out with you, treat her like a queen. It doesn’t matter if she is too fat, too skinny, you need to sharpen your dating skills and that takes practice, practice, practice. Prepare by reading books such as: http://www.match.com/magazine/article/11923/ ...
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Lostintheworld, what have you done so far in trying to solve your problem ? Have you tried dating websites and dating apps ? Do you spend hours in places where you can easily introduce single people, like dancing courses, sport courses, training studios, universities etc ? What is your age ?   [End]
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I didn’t really know where to post this but seeing as how I’ve been feeling pretty depressed about it and it keeps coming up in my mind I figured here was a good spot and id like to at least get it off my chest, regardless of how common a problem it might be so here goes nothing. Its been a few years since I’ve been in a relationship and only had like 1 brief fling since. It just seems like no one seems to harbor any feelings for me other than friendship (family obviously excluded because that’s not the kind of feelings I’m talking about, I know they care about me as a brother, son, cous ...
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Put yourself in his shoes before you decide to hate him. He wanted you to have a good income with a career but you wanted to suffer as an untrained slave (like working in MacDonalds). Every good parent risks letting their children hate them in order to get them on a healthy path in life.   [End]
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My father obliged me to study any career in a private university. I didnt know what do I have to study. So i chose engineering civil. I was so bad in maths since the I studied in school. After a few time, I left this career. I propose him to study the career that I want. He refused to it and obligue to study business adminstrator. Bad experience cause It had math and my father get me to the classes. The secretary said, nobody comes with their parents. It was so embarrasing. Since that, I dont want to study. I study in an institute but there was a problen with the credits to convali ...
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amen. I am so thankful for this truth. For some reason, my many sins from my youth have come back in living color to me this year. One in particular, at 13 or 14 -- a particularly horrible act -- visits me regularly and I am struggling with such condemnation. Please pray for me! And thank you!   [End]
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Tell her you will quit smoking cigarettes if she will let you kiss your boyfriend. If she won’t go for that, you will have to stop kissing him in front of the cameras. In Texas were making out in our boyfriends cars when we were your age, and our parents never knew about it. Perhaps those days are gone. Is there some reason why you want to get caught? Think about what your mother is worried about. If you don’t know, ask her. If you can understand where she is coming from and put her mind at ease, it will make her feel better. Perhaps then she will relax and trust you more.   [End]
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You’ll be fine. Every teenager has these problems. Your mom can’t fight you dating guys, you’re not a child.   [End]
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Your mom os just worried. She suddenly sees her little girl kissing a guy. She cares for you, she doesn’t want you to get hurt or make mistakes. You have to understand her. Just talk to her, tell her everything so she feels a part of the process. Watch your children grow isn’t easy.   [End]
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If your mom wants to talk, listen to her. While she may not say so, she is probably speaking from experience. Listen and let her finish. Then it is your turn. When your mom offers advice, she deserves your respectful attention. After all, she has probably at least seen and possibly experienced anything that you might be going through or may go through in the future. After listening, it may be a good thing to honestly open up to her about your issues and concerns. A good friendship or relationship is rarely based on not discussing things or on not sharing.   [End]
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I’m a 17 years old girl and two days ago i went out with a guy and he walked me home. When we got to my house i asked him if he wants to come in and stay for a cigarette and he accepted. The thing is that my mom saw me and him kissing on the cameras and she got upset but I tried to explain her that i am not doing anything wrong. We are only staying in the back garden we didnt go inside the house and that insted of staying out on the street at least i am staying in the garden and nothing wrong can happen but she doesn’t understand me and she got really mad and told me that we are gonna talk ...
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Because of the ”new improved version” of Curezone was not able to start a new topic like I’ve been doing now for years. Many heartfelt THANKS to Mr Mohoric who diligently does this free distant energy healing, once a month.... hoping many folks out there get the opportunity to clink in! There will be another fr’ee- distant energy healing for everyone who wants to join and all their friends, families and anyone else who reads this. The main healing session is SATURDAY JUNE 13, 2015 from 6-7pm Pacific DAYLIGHT Time or same as Los Angeles, (MDT 7-8pm), (CDT 8-9pm), (9-10pm EDT-same as Ne ...
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New-Free Distant Healing Saturday April 18, 2015 6-7pm Pacific Time (Los Angeles) There will be another fr’ee- distant energy healing for everyone who wants to join and all their friends, families and anyone else who reads this. The main healing session is on SATURDAY APRIL 18, 2015 from 6-7pm Pacific DAYLIGHT Time or same as Los Angeles, (MDT 7-8pm), (CDT 8-9pm), (9-10pm EDT-same as New York). You can join this no-cost distant energy healing session by using your intention to be included. To join, just close your eyes for a minute when you read this and mentally say that you in ...
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It has been a long ago, move on, be at peace and just be happy with your new loved on.   [End]
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I believe that these advices are all true. It will not be easy to do them all but then let’s keep trying! Thanks for this post!   [End]
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read Pat Allen ”Getting to I do”. love yourself. require a man to love you. before you sleep.   [End]
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I believe it is never too late. Feelings that have been buried alive never die.   [End]
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I hope that your happy marriage and the death of Jo have healed all the hurts you felt by the rape. Thanks for sharing your story.   [End]
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I posted nasty things about somebody I was seeing online used his photos and cyber stalked him to find out what he was doing. Still have the compulsion to do it. He hurt me I did it to get revenge it didn’t help. I think it’s pain that hasn’t been managed. Perhaps you didn’t get closure. I still feel the need to know what hes up to. Truth is when I find out something I only want to know more and I end up getting hurt. But everyday it gets a little easier. I know there will come a time when I don’t feel the need to know anything at all. sometimes it’s hard to let go and accept how certain ...
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Thank you.   [End]
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There is no way you can go back. What is done is done. Years ago, I read this and it has helped me more than once: ”Make the least of what is past and the most of what is to come.”   [End]
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Posted a hell all of personal information of an affair I had with my ex who was still married, in the process of a divorced because I was angry. This was after I went to his home and threw all the stuff he had given me including sex toys in front of his wife and I called his job and told them about the divorce and his pot smoking pretending to be his wife. Why? Because I was angry at him. One because he initially lied to me about being married. He told me ha had been divorced for 7 months. Second because as supportive as I was even trying to get my lawyer friend to h ...
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Hello all. I wanted to talk about a serious topic : Masturbation and Abuse Simply put : MASTURBATION makes abuse WORSE! I have 20 years of experience with bullying from people with various personality disorders, and I can ATTEST that there is a relationship between how many times you masturbate and how much you are abused. No wonder spiritual people around the world frown upon it. It’s like after every cllmax with my hand, things become worse and worse. I become less manly and more sensitive to bullying. But involontary cllmaxs during the night don’t have that effect at all. ...
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Talk to a therapist about it man. Confess your guilt somehow to someone (or some higher power), but also accept that she hurt you emotionally. But you are a different person now and can put it in a new perspective.   [End]
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A Divorced Man Wrote These 20 Epic MARRIAGE ADVICES He Wished He Could Have Had. A MUST Read (!!!) . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . Obviously those ones can and Should be applied Not just by Men but women Also. :).. Below are 20 Wise Marriage tips from a man that was recently divorced. You wouldn’t normally think that a divorced man would give good advice on being a husband, but this man has been through enough hardship to know what is worth fighting for: MARRIAGE ADVICE I WISH I WOULD HAVE HAD: Obviously, I’m not a relationship expert. But there’s ...
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When I was young I was madly in love my my first girlfriend. We had a very unhealthy relationship and after she dumped me and cheated on me I went insane. Among other things I signed into her email, facebook, and myspace, because I knew the passwords she always used and I discovered all her dirty secrets and that she had signed up for a dozen dating site profiles, which of coarse I also logged into. I had tried just about every dating site out there as well but I always barely got any messages at all. When I logged on to hers I was amazed at the amount of emails she got. I read through ...
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In my situation it is a very strong and determined husband that will not accept what others say is his place in society, he is well trained in combat arts and planning, but because of his none acceptance his father has many times used a shotgun to force my husband to do as expected, My husband got his hands on it though and turned it into junk and inoperable, after memorial day his father wanted to have a conversation with me without my husband around, He had two of his friends hold weapons on my husband so I was not stopped from going with them, I went under protest and so they did not hu ...
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It’s too late to talk to this matter. I can only give sympathy..   [End]
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I’ve sat on guys laps before and have felt, ”it”., It just happens.   [End]
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I'm so sorry that you had that experience and that you sound as if you've been able to process what had been done to you. Male rape is one of "those subjects" that doesn't get a whole lot of insightful discussion OR sympathy - like the poster above, many (if not, most) people try to connect rape with their understanding of what it's all about, and what generally happens, and they have absolutely NO frame of reference to refer to. Even women experience cllmax during rape - this doesn't mean that they enjoyed what had been done to them, or that they ...
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Thank you for your response, Will. Best of success to you!   [End]
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Hello. A guy is just ’set off’ easily with the right amount of grabbing or movement down there. Its a reaction more than anything and happens almost over anything when your 16.   [End]
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Hi Will, I am just curious: I have heard/read stories like yours before, but never understood how [if a man is actually being raped, i.e. forced to have (vaginal) sex against his will] a man could have a erection without any [sexual] interest? Just wondering [and thanks in advance], David   [End]
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Thought I would throw in my story. In 1968 I was 15 and I was very shy and sheltered for the most part and only really started hanging out with more teens when I turned 15 as I knew I had to get out more. I had a few people I knew locally and used to just ride my bike with them and be typical annoying teens with. One time when I was 16 we were all hanging out in the local close sitting on the green. We were talking about nothing of much importance but then the subject went towards girls and the guys experiences with them. Some of the guys I knew were braggers claiming they’d been wi ...
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I hope this helps someone.. I was drugged and raped when I was 17.. Being a Heterosexual male and having as far as I know heterosexual friends made it both difficult to accept and discuss with anyone.. For 26 years I hid this incident, however unbeknownst to myself the incident manifested itself in many different ways over the years and caused numerous nervous breakdowns.. It is never easy to address such tragic life events, especially when you can see no instigation or provocation from your side. However the truth is that I have to live with this.. I can never rewind the time or e ...
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The actual use of this weapon scares the blazes out of people, When my husband is assaulted he looks at his retaliation as a finish Have a friend that was hurt so bad after he did what he thought a joke, causing three teeth to be knocked out when my husband retaliated, I understand he wakes up a year later screaming please don’t hit me again. As his wife I have no respect for this type of cause   [End]
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I saw what a 3rd dan black belt could do to someone when he defended himself when four men jumped him one night, he did not give warning he was well trained in combat arts, he did not give warning he was trained in counter battle planning, All that was intended that night was several people wanted him humbled, I am talking about my husband, he did not back down from a request from someone in a higher societal position than him, I fact the level and language used was insulting, One man was transported with both eye sockets shattered, another was thowntwenty feet into the street where he lan ...
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I am very sorry that you were victimized and I hope that you read my words as they're intended:  as strong suggestions from personal experience. Bullies and abusers (this includes molesters, rapists, and many corporate executives) target people who appear "weak," vulnerable, or different from themselves.  With teenaged bullying, it's pretty much peer pressure/acceptance and herd mentality.  With adults, it's something that cannot be accurately understood because these types of people are not going to "confess" anything.  They bul ...
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I’ll try that. Thanks   [End]
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In proper self-defense courses you are suppose to learn how to hurt someone. And you are suppose to train it on someone who is protected but it feels real. If you repeate a kick 10.000 times, it will be natural to use it in defense. Gun needs not to be used for killing. If you are skilled enough, you can aim for toes and feet. Once you hit his toe, he is either screaming in pain or if you miss he is running away from you. It is extremely scary to have several bullets making holes around your feet. Only stupid person would continue toward the gun. And, you can’t kill ...
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That might actually be a better choice. But I still feel that I like many women am conditioned not to hurt anybody and it is hard to overcome that inhibition even in cases of self-defense. Any ideas on how to ’delete’ that program? I Karate classes you do not actually hurt someone and it is a different situation. In ’real’ situations one might panic or be inhibited even if it is irrational   [End]
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You misunderstood what was said. The gun is a last resort. Step 1 a stern warning that you are trained in Karate Step 2 swift kick to the testicles Step 3 Mace sprayed in the eyes Last resort the gun, or else flee if you are too much of a WUSS to use it. Grizz   [End]
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The problem with this solution is that it only works if you convince the perpetrator that you will use the weapon or you actually use it. With doubts it doesn’t work and I know I would feel bad about killing somebody if it wasn’t really necessary and when I am convinced it might be too late . Many perpetrators recognize these doubts..   [End]
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Yes, I suggest taking self defense training, and get a concealed carry permit for a gun. Then warn the creep that you are trained in Karate & will kill in self defense. A swift kick to the testicles will stop any man. Also carry several cans of MACE in your purse and aim for the creep’s eyes. Your hoice whether to use the Mace or the gun. Grizz   [End]
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Hey! I was victim of bullying and sexual violence and I thought it was therapeutic for me to understand the otherside. I want to know what they feel in these situations and if there is anything that makes it more likely to become a victim or any ’right’ way to react in these situations. Thanks   [End]
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True statement, known by many in this Southern Illinois town. Hospital staff knew he was a drunk, but highly respected and liked by most. He was an alcoholic since day one and so were many of his doctor business partners and fellow surgeons at this well known hospital. One I know of even popped pills during surgeries to stay awake. And one person I know of personally to this day, dear ol dad was drunk when he performed on this person and a mistake was made. Now, this was long before medical malpractice was a daily routine for lawyers like it is now. He’d be out of business today. Bu ...
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I mean, this thread is what it’s all about. I find this one maybe the most interesting of all. Where else would people tell you their most intimate thoughts? Give it to me...I’ve heard it all.   [End]
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If you’ve been with ebay since the beginning, 1998 era or so, this will hit home. Ebay started out to be ”seller freindly” up until about 2004, then it became extremely ”buyer friendly/anti seller” and their policies hurt sellers and gave the store away to buyers. So much so that many of us Powersellers turned on ebay and found ways to screw over ebay just to make a statement of defiance. Their customer service was terrible. Their management was closed ear. Ok, you want to play that game... One of the screw jobs that ebay used to allow was that any buyer, for any reason whatsoever ...
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I don’t even think she remembers this, now my wife, but one night my boss came looking for me...couldn’t get me on he phone (before cell phones) and was determined so he came over. At the time I was sleeping on an army cot in a rehab apartment I was working on, and I had my gf over at the time. Well her head was down working her magic when my boss at the time appears out of nowhere and knocks on the door and looks into the glass, no curtains of course, and I act like I’m asleep on my cot. Problem is, her head was covered with my blanket, I told her to freeeze right there with my erectio ...
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Probably a record in my state, I got 8 points off my license in one frick’in day back in the 1980’s. That was some damned day! So I lost my license. But I needed to drive, my job at the time was 100% based on driving to locations. Well, I had a former female roommate who lived in Iowa. I asked her if I could use her address as mine, go to Iowa and apply for an Iowa license. She agreed. I drove to the smallest Iowa town I could find on the map, went to their DMV, took the test and low and behold...got a license a couple weeks later mailed to her home. My grand experiment had worked ...
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Very nice couple we see quite often. They asked me to sell some playground equipment for them because they were renting out a home they moved away from and this expensive backyard set needed to be sold. Everybody in town knows I buy and sell with the best of them, have the reputation for such, so they immediately asked my help. I obliged, found a buyer, cash in hand, bada bing sold it. As all good salesmen do, I put on my charge, my take for selling the set...an extra $200 on top of the $500 for them. They had told me that all they wanted out of it was $500...so that’s what I handed ...
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That’s what is so cleansing about this thread...you can let it all out. This was in the 1980’s when I bought my first house, we knew the owner before had died and his mail kept coming. So, we kept sending the mail back to the post office. Well, one day a pre-approved credit card came in the mail for the deceased. I took it out and tried an experiment...what if I just take this up to the 7-11 ATM machine and cash advance $300 for myself...just as a goof. Well, it worked! Took the cash, spent it on something, and for about a year trashed all the bills that kept coming looking for repay ...
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You’ll enjoy this one folks...I was a late bloomer when it came to sexual awakening. Didn’t know what a hard on was really all about until about 12 or so, end of Middle School years. Well, the first time I had to shower with everybody, think it was freshman high school maybe in the late 1970’s, the idea of being nude was a great turn on. Didn’t know what this stiff hard dick meant or was used for, but man did I ever have ’em during those years and beyond. I’m in the lockerroom parading my manhood around the room just talking up a storm with everybody not knowing that I shouldn’t be doi ...
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OK, this is a great thread so I’ll give you some confessions...I once faked being sick at a sales convention because I had no idea what the hell was going on in the training session. None, nada, zippo. I was selling and designing advertising for a big time newspaper, they put all the sales people in a training room at a fancy eatery downtown. Well, they were debuting a sales technique that we were supposed to start using on our calls and after lunch, we were to get up and use them with another partner towards a customer. I sell by gut feeling, winging it, it works for me...standard scr ...
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You are not a bad person but through the abuse you have experienced you are carrying entities, demons, bad habits, whatever you wish to call them.  You have not learned self protective behaviours.. and this is due to your parents not teaching you - and this has lead to years of abuse. You have developed into a pain junkie. You need a re-adjustment, either through prayer, exorcism, acupuncture or all of the above.   [End]
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In my life, I’ve been raped, abused - mentally, physically, emotionally, and financially.. I suppose we all have our stories. It created a lot of self loathing: I must be so awful, such a bad person, so unclean, so disgusting, so ugly, so... I used to be promiscuous, I thought my body was all I had. I gave in to dominant men because I didn’t think I had the right to say no. Four years ago I met the most incredible man. I was in the middle of my growing and didn’t see just how wonderful he was. It was hard to have him love me because I didn’t love me, I kept thinking I would let him ...
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Bury the secret that you jacked off on your lover’s tits. It won’t go over well if you tell. People that tell you to ”let it all out” probably are divorced a couple times over. Women don’t want to hear this, especially good ones. And just a little reminder...drinking isn’t an excuse for bad behavior, I don’t accept it, sell that to somebody else. You wanted this babe before you were drunk so let’s cut to the chase. You had your masturbation fix with this babe, let it be. Just keep it in your mind’s lockbox.   [End]
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You act like a teenager confronted with a first date here...you’re a grown married man, guy, act like an adult. You’re treading on dangerous ground here, and you know it. You know exactly what you’re doing. Lesbians are forbidden fruit and you’re making smalltalk here on Curezone in hopes that some of us will green light you to screw the lesbian’s lights out, sow your wild oats, then go back to wifey. Not this guy...you gotta know that you are on the road to screwing this lesbian silly. Continue on, it will happen. I find that HOMOsexuals of both kinds do not respect hetero marriage ...
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I am so sorry that you were assaulted and that your world view has changed. There is free counseling through Domestic Violence and Sexual Assault agency that every state has. If they are not close check to see what other agencies offer free counseling. Your sadness is stacking up and it is important to work through the loss of your Mom, the loss of your family and the vicious rape. I promise you, life is worth living and if you can make it through the sadness, self loathing, self hatred, and anger there will be a light at the end of the tunnel. I speak from experience.   [End]
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Hello I am a Casting Director with Eastern TV and am working on a new show for a major network. I would love to speak with you about your story. If you are interested please message me to set a time for us to chat. I hope to hear from you! Thanks! Melissa   [End]
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I can imagine your emotionally tight situation now. Have you given yourself time to consider what might be? what might happened when your wife discover about this? what will be your friends reaction when she knows this? what if she don’t like you as you want it to be? what if she does, then what? If there is something missing with your relationship with your wife, don’t search it outside your home instead take an active effort to rekindle or solve the problem within the home.This site http://www.getyourexbackeasy.net really help me a lot when i have been going through tough times in my rel ...
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Don’t tell her. It will only hurt her. Also, this is what drinking does to people. They do things they regret afterwards. You should really think about stop drinking.   [End]
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You’re walking a dangerous path, friend. You might find it difficult listening to advice when there’s a part of you that wants to do what you know to be wrong. Spend more time with your wife and less with your female friend, else you might find yourself in a more compromising position and a lot of emotional pain to follow. I read in the previous post about quitting your job. That might be a good idea. Or, at least, arranging your schedule so that you see less of your friend. Maybe go on a vacation or some weekend dates with your wife. Do what you can to get your mind off this fri ...
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You need to stop living in a fantasy life and start living in reality. The first and most important reality is that you are married and made a committment to your wife and the mother of your children. So many people forget what it means to be committed to another human being when they get married and it’s so frustrating to read stuff like this. If you truly care about your wife and want to have a life with her, then I think the best thing you can do is cut off your ”friendship” with your lesbian friend. You have no future with her and being with her day in and day out is only going to ...
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BlueRose is spot-on about this situation. My views on ”marriage” and commitment have been altered over the past couple of years, but that’s due to my personal experiences. The thing about ”marriage” is that, in the U.S., it’s a binding, contractual agreement - when a marriage ends, it’s a very, very expensive and traumatic experience and hinges solely upon ”equitable distribution of assets.” Having typed that, the question is whether or not you feel love for your wife and mother of your children? If you honestly love your wife, then BlueRose suggested that you speak openly and ho ...
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From what you’ve written, I gather that you have not told this woman about your feelings. If so, be sure to keep it that way. I’m guessing that with 2 kids under the age of 2 (twins?), that your home life revolves around the daily care of the kids. No doubt, you and your wife either can’t or won’t make some time for just the two of you. Thus, it’s easy for you, once you’re at work, to spend time chatting with this woman. Basically, you’re getting from her (adult one on one time) that you are not getting from your wife. If I’m right, it’s up to you to take the first step and make ...
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I am torn up about this and unsure of what to do to move past how I feel. I am a happily married man with two young kids under the age of 2. Earlier this year I started getting close to a female colleague of mine at work. I always thought she was nice and a good friend, but never much more than that. By pure chance earlier this year, we ended up going out on our lunch break alone, rather than with other colleagues. I used to always go in a group, but there were a couple of people she disliked in that group so she usually went to lunch alone. We found out we had a lot to talk about a ...
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Can anyone else give me insigh   [End]
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This is something that is better left unsaid. Think about it --- what purpose would it serve to tell your girlfriend? As you said, it would crush her. This is not to say that what happened was right---it isn’t. You recognize that what you did was wrong and have made positive changes in your life so that you don’t repeat this again. You also said that the other girl regrets her actions and it’s highly unlikely that she will tell anyone. So, let it go. If you are having problems letting go and feel that this is eating you up inside, then perhaps, you could consider getting counselin ...
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I have been in a very good relationship for over 2 years now. I love my girlfriend very much. I would never want to hurt her. Well the other day I had some friends over for a party. One of my friends has a crush on me but she knows I will never leave my girlfriend for her. But the other night we got really drunk and found ourselves alone. Long story short she ended up wanting to see me masturbate while she had her breasts out. I guess at the time we felt this wasn’t cheating. And I thought it was kind of exciting having her watch me knowing she can’t actually have me. But the next day when ...
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I still feel weird. Maybe it doesn’t make me a bad person, but definitely a f***ing weird one. I still have trouble accepting it, and I feel I can never really be normal or carefree. I find my mind coming back to this on a daily basis.   [End]
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Nope, don’t worry about it. I think you may just have a fetish.   [End]
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You didn’t hurt anyone, and you say you’re not attracted to children. I don’t think you did anything so terrible.   [End]
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Ever since the age of 14 or 15 I had an attraction to womens panties. I never wanted to wear them or anything, but i got kind of aroused when i saw them. One summer i was invited for a week to hang out at a friends place with him and his girlfriend. Long story short, one night when left alone i used her panties to beat off. I did it a few times that week. Maybe three. This second experience could have been before or after, i could have been 17 going on 18 years old. I snuck into a local pool at night and found a bag of lost clothes. Out of it i got a girls swimsuit. Looking back it w ...
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