Advice! 
Comunicationisthekey
9 y
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I'm a 17 years old girl and two days ago i went out with a guy and he walked me home. When we got to my house i asked him if he wants to come in and stay for a cigarette and he accepted. The thing is that my mom saw me and him kissing on the cameras and she got upset but I tried to explain her that i am not doing anything wrong. We are only staying in the back garden we didnt go inside the house and that insted of staying out on the street at least i am staying in the garden and nothing wrong can happen but she doesn't understand me and she got really mad and told me that we are gonna talk and she comes back home which means in two days! I really need an advice please i don't know what to tell her and how to make everything better because we usually don't really speak we only speak about school and basic things but we never talk about what's happening with me, about how I feel or what makes me happy. Advice please!!😁
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- Re: Advice! parazapper
9 y
2,464
This is a reply to # 2,267,878If your mom wants to talk, listen to her. While she may not say so, she is probably speaking from experience. Listen and let her finish. Then it is your turn.
When your mom offers advice, she deserves your respectful attention. After all, she has probably at least seen and possibly experienced anything that you might be going through or may go through in the future.
After listening, it may be a good thing to honestly open up to her about your issues and concerns. A good friendship or relationship is rarely based on not discussing things or on not sharing.
- Re: Advice! Jevans
9 y
2,342
This is a reply to # 2,267,878Your mom os just worried. She suddenly sees her little girl kissing a guy. She cares for you, she doesn't want you to get hurt or make mistakes. You have to understand her. Just talk to her, tell her everything so she feels a part of the process. Watch your children grow isn't easy.
- Re: Advice! Beark
9 y
2,419
This is a reply to # 2,267,878You'll be fine. Every teenager has these problems. Your mom can't fight you dating guys, you're not a child.
- Re: Advice! glaxony
9 y
2,437
This is a reply to # 2,267,878Tell her you will quit smoking cigarettes if she will let you kiss your boyfriend.
If she won't go for that, you will have to stop kissing him in front of the cameras. In Texas were making out in our boyfriends cars when we were your age, and our parents never knew about it. Perhaps those days are gone.
Is there some reason why you want to get caught?
Think about what your mother is worried about. If you don't know, ask her. If you can understand where she is coming from and put her mind at ease, it will make her feel better. Perhaps then she will relax and trust you more.
- Re: Advice! parazapper
9 y
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