Hi my friend, I'm sorry. I didn't mean to be unkind. Actually you write me all you like. Sometimes it might take me longer to get back to you since I really got to buckle down with trying to think of ways to make some doe (is that the right way to spell another way for money?). I would have written directly to your email but I've said some bad things about you bf and if you have my email well I certainly don't want him to get ahold of my email, or my name. And you asked me where I live well I'm even scared to tell you exactly that now. I'll tell you this much from good ol Southern Illinois. Now he (your bf) doesn't know you ask for help about your relationship or about this site does he? Sorry I guess I'm just paranoid. And I am genuinely interested and would love to know how you and your little family are getting along. And also if you were able to make any progress with him (bf). So again I'm sorry before when I was telling you I didn't have the time in so many words. I will make the time because I am interested - not to mention curious and also I happen to care about you and your daughters allot. Just please be patient with me because sometimes it may take me days or a week to reply back to you.