Re: Need Insight
hey #36807
I'm sorry to hear about your man troubles. I been having some
of my own well of late (roller coaster since we met late March 05).
I'm not so sure how long you been trying with this man but from
what I read it appears like you've been pretty, very patient with
him. I think you may have made a mistake in the very beginning
(sorry don't want to hurt of offend only mentioning it for your
future ref) when you had the other man you couldn't quite forget,
or let go of. It might of hurt this man and perhaps he got scared
from it or something. But still it seems like you've pretty well
made it up to him since then, so he should be making lots more of an
effort to please you and make you happy. It seems he still (possibly)
to trying (or just is) punishing you (maybe?). I don't know for sure -
I'm just theroizing here. He's had plenty of time to get over it.
He is not including you and your kids and this is not right of him.
This would be my suggestion to you. Give him an altimative - tell him
to start including you immediately or it's over, you're done with him,
for good this time. Be strong. You deserve better treatment. You can
find a better man to treat you and your kids much better. Please don't
waste any more time on this man who can't be man enough to treat you
and you kids right and include you with him, his kids and his other family.
You and your kids deserve much more happiness then he can give you.
God bless you all. Say a prayer for me to. thanks. If you don't leave
him, you are just prolonging your agony. I try telling myself this to -
it doesn't always work. I'm a weak person. Hopefully you are much stronger.