Re: replying back to: Need Insight

Note I think I've been messing up I wrote a message to you prior to this one - did you by chance get it? If not could you read through some of the other messages by me (the message was to you anyways). This is the 2nd part to it: Oh sslea, sorry I made a typo mistake in one of my messages, I meant to say - Your boyfriend, he isn't making love to U that instead he is f--king U (he is just screwing U). He isn't giving you affection, carresses, holds, kissing during the lovemaking session) or at least that the way you describe it. And if he isn't being passionate then he's not making love to you. He is in essense degrading you. I think he's the kind of man who hates women in general. And he shouldn't base his feelings for you on the way his X-wife, or how other women, treated him either. And if he does, he is just so narrow minded. He can't grow up. He can't learn any lessens. He is caught in a web of bitterness and he is making you pay for it. He's kind of even punishing your girls along with you since they are female also. He already made a socalled "slur" against female in general. Can't you see that you need to get away from this kind of man who has a very, very fatal flaw. Don't feel sorry for him. Oh about one of your other messages. You are right and I've made the exact same mistake in all my relationships. Why I hoped into bed right off the bat with the man without getting to know them first. I should have dated them awhile and made them wait for sex. I should have controlled myself and made myself wait and not gone home with them on the very 1st date like I did this past boyfriend and even the one before that, and the one before that even, and the one before that even. I am so stupid. Yes, you are so right sslea, about getting to know them first for like 6-8 weeks maybe even. That way you get to know all about them and see if they would be compatible with you in almost every sense of the word. I could of saved myself so much grief if I would only have done this - get to know the guy first - maybe email allot first or just date without any going to his place - without any risk of even beginning to have sex. And I'm like you to, I'm way to nice to men and you're so right, men don't appreciate this at all. They aren't greatful. I think nice girls finish last also. I think men prefer bitches. Women who play hard to get - well they get way more good results from men then we nice, easy women do. So I can really relate to all you say. Well let you go for now - my son is wanting something. You take care. And try to break-up and look for a good guy for yourself if possible. And take your girls out for a fun activity.


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