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well sslea, I got this message addressed to you from #25274, I can't say I quite agree with member #25274 - this member is wanting you to be understanding of him and powder his butt somemore and I say "no, no, no" he's had plenty of time to get over it and to make some changes and his time has ran out. And sslea you need to make it known to him that his time has run out. Tell him he's got 1 more month to straighten up. Matter fact if I were you, I wouldn't even give him that. He screws you. He F__ks you. He is making love to you. no kisses, no carreses - this is all BS (bull shit on his part). You seem like such a loving woman and so full of passion and affection. You deserve so much more then you're getting from this very narrow minded man. I was weak and I made up with my penny-pinching boyfriend. But my foreign boyfriend hasn't a job and is scared to death to spend anymore of his savings then necessary. Now he will feed me and make me coffee at his place and give me any food I want at his place. And as far as passion, love and affection - I get an over abundance of these wonderful things from him. Magical, wondrous love making sessions are equal to a treasure chest of jewels. I get all the glorious cuddles, holds, kisses and touches that I want to just about anyway. All these things just feel so heavenly. I may not get dates and a man who lavishly spends money on me but all the things he does give me are worth their weight in gold. My cup runneth over with love for him. And he seems to have an abundance of love for me also. I can't say I'm not still bothered by all his "no" to even small request of mine - I am. But I'm going to put all that on the back burner for not and just enjoy his adorable very presence. So back to you sslea, you deserve kisses, holds and cuddles to and I know you can find them but not with this man. It's been way to many months and he wouldn't surely already shown you some degree of these types of affections if he was going to. Please don't waste anymore of your precious time on him. And please think of your girls also. I don't think this unloving type man would make for a very good step father for your girls. And his boys might be mean to your girls. That might be another thing to consider. Maybe not but what if it was the case. What if it was a big risk. You wouldn't want any abuse put on those precious girls of yours. Get out while you can. There are plenty of good men out there. He doesn't need his butt powdered anymore. He doesn't need anymore understanding. You are the one who needs the understanding and the empathy - not him. He does not deserve any feeling sorry for. He is not treating you the right way - nor your girls either. And if he wants to be alone with his boys - go tell him - OK go take your boys and be alone with them (and without us - capish?). Tweet