That is why I posted this. I wanted to see if anyone else thought his behaviour was out of line. I just think it is really weird how he holds back from me and how long it has been going on. In a way, it shows how weak and insecure he is that he won't even let a woman who loves him get close. They say that the people who act the toughest are the weakest inside. I am proud I can love after all I have been through. All the bad luck and hard times just make me want to try that much harder to find a real mate who actually respects me and our relationship. I told my bf last night that actions speak louder than words and his actions were screaming at me "don't get too close!" Mabye I should follow my gut. They say it is your second brain! lol