Hi 40855, I'm sorry about your man troubles too. Relationships are hard!! I have always been the one to bend over backwards to make it work. I have been in three long term relationships, married twice, and I have had to end them all. This is the fourth one. I tend to be too nice and they end up taking advantage of me then I get sick of thier crap and leave. Then they cry about wanting to make it work and I just say, why couldn't you make it work while we were together? Ughhh! I just loose respect for them not treating me right. Why does it always have to be a game? Maybe I am just choosing the wrong mates. I've been thinking maybe if I was a little more tough on them I might be able to get some respect. I will say a prayer for you as well. Hope you are having a great Thanksgiving!