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dear sslea,
i agree totally with Invincable!!and btw I am a woman also.
I could go into plenty of your information about this relationship,but Invincable said it all very well I think.Before you get all worked up by yourself (and recommendations from other people),buy yourself the book she recommended or go to library.You know this men 1 1/2 year now,surely you can spend the time to read this one book also(don't know the book,but can guess what she means).After that you can still decide what you need to do.etc.etc.
40855,I think you are a sweet person,but think your last post is over the top.
From the factual information about HIM,to me he seems a really decent man.Imagine yourself in his shoes,first woman he dates after divorce,4 months into relationship,previous boyfriend comes into picture again,all very understandable and human,but it shook himup.Any wonder he is not generously showing love?
I also can understand that a parent that can only see his/her children 3times a year
wants them all for him/herself,if only for strenghtening temporarely? broken bonds?
Try to see it from his inner feelings,hurts,etc.ETCETCETCETCLoveLight Tweet