OMG!!! i can identify with your marriage!!! the only thing keeping me in my marriage is my three kids instead of a business. i dont know what to do. i love him soooooooo much, but i am finally realizing i am a good person and i have a good heart, but the hurt is too great. my head tells me too run, but my heart says i love him. i dont know if he can change. i believe a person does not change their behaviors.