Nope, you won't have the heartache because you never invested enough of your heart for it to ache. Unfortunately, I fear that your daughter won't be so 'lucky'. The best gift a mother can give her daughter is showing her how to live a happy, fulfilled life. And you are her greatest teacher when it comes to relationships with men. The lessons she is learning about life are very sad indeed. And I'm sorry for the lessons that you obviously learned in your life.