If you are really sincere about saving your marriage, then I recommend this program. It fits your situation perfectly. I have used this program years ago myself and there is none better for the purpose of saving relationships. I picked the wrong person to use it on, but it still works well, just make sure if you use it that the man is deserving of your efforts. Only one person has to use the program and the other person doesn't even have to know. The changes you make will impact the relationship very positively anyway and they will respond to your new learned behaviors. It is a fun program, too. And, it is guaranteed or your money back, so you cannot go wrong.