Re: Slight problem

Nothing like being told off in no uncertain terms.

I know I'm worthless so, the only thing I got going for me is my physical appearance. I simply don't care about intimacy and all those great things you talk about. All I see them doing is making an attachment that will eventually hurt you. So why be intimate in the first place. Go for it as long as you can and when its over find someone else. No heartache, no loss, no intimacy to cry over. It ain't all that good anyway.

I view intimacy as a trick to get you hooked on something that will eventually hurt you. I know damn well if I love him he'll be gone with someone else. Happens every time. Look at all the stories you people talk about. How you tried and tried only to get your heart broke.

He loves me and I'm not interested in him. If I love him he won't be interested in me. That's the way it works. As long as I don't love him I have a pretty good life but I know darn well if I start to love him he'll be gone.

I'm in excellent physical shape due to his knowledge about health. He has taught me well. But the intimacy thing just gets you hurt. I'm content on the inside knowing when he does leave it won't hurt.

But I had 8 good years. I could have sex anytime I wanted, didn't have to worry about a roof over my head and raising my daughter. And I'm pretty sure if he does leave he'll leave me in pretty good shape fiancially. The best part about it is no tears, no heartbreak.

I know that sounds very cold to you folks but really think about it. You would have saved yourselves a lot of heartache and tears if you hadn't tried to love them and be intimate. If you hadn't tried to have that something special. If you hadn't tried to make it work.

And I'm not all bad. He says he's got a perfect wife except for the intimacy thing.

So I don't know if I want to go down that road. So far I see people get their heart broke and have all kinds of difficulty because they loved their mate and how dare them not love them back. Heartache by the truckloads.

Is it worth it?

Besides he'll do good without me. I'm sure there are plenty of females that are more than willing to do the intimacy thing. Allthough he has said that if it doesn't work out with me he'll never have another woman the rest of his life. Yeah right.

So I'll never have what you people claim is so great and wonderful. So what. I won't have all the heartache you people have either. Which is better???

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