typhonblue,,,I can't believe what I'm reading!!!!!!!!!!!
A person who comes to a forum meant for help and rationalizes gambling and p 0 r n...FOR A HUSBAND! He is a man, not a little kid that simply needs discipline because he is confused about life or refuses to do the right thing, he is a grown up man (a MARRIED man). Even the Boy Scouts know loyalty, honor, integrity, dignity and responsibility (it's called conscience).
Forget (just for the moment) about everything else about what this "man" is, just the gambling habit alone (well, I don't want to badmouth him for the sake of the wife), but the p 0 r n is done while he is clearheaded and in his sane mind (as if his other vice is not bad enough, he further flaunts his disrepect of his wife and children and everything else in the world that is good), he is a traitor. He doesn't have any self-respect and nobody who defends him does either (and I don't blame them either).