Re: anyone

Please don't apologise for the long post, your messages are very insightful to me.

My sister passes the test with flying colors. When she has her husband speak for her I think it is because she is worried of taking responsibility. Example when my brother died very suddenly my older brother and I were trying to talk to her to make arrangements. She was never available to us, just her husband. He would tell us she was to distraught and unable to talk. My brother who died had nothing, and she was just trying to avoid a committment of sharing funeral expenses. She wasn't even going to go to the funeral but did show up at the last minute and was the first to leave. THEN, when it is all over, it was, Why did you do it that way? You had him cremated because it was cheaper! You are always about the money! It's funny, my brother had nothing except for a few possessions and we were able to get some money from the death benefit to cover some of our expensives but she e-mails me and says, Ive added up the money and there should be some left, I forgot to tell you that our brother left a will, can't find it now, know it's here somewhere. I guess I should have told you all this sooner,would have saved a lot of trouble. (Our brother had nothing to do with her, in fact he didn't mind telling anyone how much of a b**** she was)

Soulfulsurvivor I sympathise that you had a professional think you were the irrational one. That would make me feel like I was going crazy!
What did you do to get things straight? Ask for another evaluation by someone else?
From my own experiences I was told so many times, it's you, you've got low self esteem, grow up, whats wrong with you?? I was beginning to think, I guess shes right, I can't remember saying these things, I'm losing my mind. Thank goodness for tape recorders! They saved me!

Now it's my turn to apologise for the long post, lol

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