Re: This post will be a strain on your Christianity.
"This sounds ridiculous, doesn't it?"
Yes.
"Keep your priorities and objective straight in your mind (be transformed by the renewing of your MIND)."
How can someone "keep their priorities objective straight" when they have no objective foundation to start with? You have ruled out The Word of God.
And what do you renew your mind with that will transform you? What do you think Paul was saying when he wrote that to the Church at Rome (RM 12:1,2).
"Are you so concerned about scripture that it overrides your heart and mind?"
If we don't concern ourselves about Scripture, what shall we fill our hearts and minds with? Who's definition of any answer you may use to replace Bible Doctrine should we use? If we say "we should fill our hearts and minds with LOVE", then how do we determine what the definition of love is, there are many diferent definitions of love. Can all be correct? Should we mix a little of everybodies and come up with a definition of our own? No wonder people are up one minute and down the next.
"but God never TOLD ME that, in MY LIFE, women should be silent."
How do you communicate with God?