I agree that I wanted a mixed perspective...but some were outright just silly. I wasn't truly offended by anyone....except the woman who said i should be glad I didn't wake up with a penis in my mouth. Wow. I guess I'm kinda old fashioned when it comes to sex. Not TOO old fashioned. We play with toys and like to watch p 0 r n together...but I have a hard time with public places too. I guess it was my upbringing. But anyhow...thanks for all your advice and insight.