Re: YES!!! You are over reacting!!

I am not young nor inexperienced. I suppose I didn't explain things well enough. I DO have boundaries due to previous experiences that have unfortunately had an effect on my sex life. My sex life is very healthy with my boyfriend ( who is a man, not a boy) and the problem was that he over stepped the boundaries that had already been established. To suggest that it is my responsibility to make my man happy at all times is immature. A man that can't control his sex drive doesn't have the moral fortitude of someone who loves and deeply cares for someone else's feelings.
My boyfriend did not mean to do me any harm or to hurt me. He says he doesn't know why he did it...it just happened. And he is very deeply sorry for hurting me and crossing a boundary that I had made perfectly clear.
We have patched things up obviously. I love him deeply and I would not let this affect our relationship. We are both working through this.
YOU, on the other hand, should have more respect when resonding to posts in this forum. To suggest that it would be okay to stick your penis in a sleeping womans mouth is dispicable.