YES!!! You are over reacting!!

You could have woken up with his penis in your mouth. Your having sex with this man(boy) you sound very young, maybe you are just simply inexperienced. I agree with the poster who suggested you may have deeper issues, if your that upset by him using your hand to masterbate with?? I'm sorry, I'm not judging I'm just confused. Perhaps as I said maybe you are just young and inexperienced but when a couple makes love there are usually no boundaries, (or very few). Also, you might want to consider yourself luckly if he has a sex addiction or a hormone inbalance I personally would perfer he use my hand rather than sneaking out to find a piece else where...........