For one thing I think you posted on the wrong form! Guys log on and see the words "SEX" and they are all over it! I heard somewhere that if a man does things like that while you are asleep...that is a sign of control issues and abuse! You sound like someone really nice and easy go get along with...He should have talked to you about this before taking the control. By the way I heard about your post in the "Women's Form"!If you ever want a woman's advice that would be the ideal place. I also think you sould watch for other signs of abuse, even if they are "small" they will become something "BIG" when givin time! I am sorry that these men have talked to you like this! I wish you would have posted with the ladies, I am sure they would have been more understanding!!!