Re: huh?

Boundaries mean diffent things to differnt people. OF COURSE there are always GIVEN boundaries, the ones you don't need to discuss. When a couple is in a relationship sexual boundaries are usually set before the sex. I could have said "Your boyfriend is a dirty pig! Dump him" Would that have been a better opioion for ME to have??

As me I have been married almost 16 years, so I am not young (only wish I was). So IF I perhaps took into consideration this is a couple that is not married and in what seems to be a new relationship, perhaps my reply may have been differnt. After 18 years with the same man I don't have anything to learn, when it comes to our sex life. Just forgot others are just starting out!

Sorry my post offended everyone, I thought we were aloud to express our thoughts openly. Many posters have responded to my posts in much more negative down right mean and nasty ways.

So were we playing nice that day and I didn't get the memo?