She should be happy that her touch means so much to him. If she loves him she should never want him to have an cllmax without her having a part in it for the rest of her life.
She should never expect him to degrade himself or their relationship by looking at p 0 r n and jerking off to the sight of another woman's body.
How healing is that?
You and CF are too young and inexperienced to understand these things.