My heart goes out to both of you two. A female friend of mine was sexually molested by her step father until she got old and large enough to put a stop to it. She did eventually come to totally realize that she did not create the molesting, she was the victim of an adult that knew better.
This friend gave me a web site that she found helpful, and although I never faced the same thing, I have found much use of the site also. Hope this helps you as much as it has for me and my friend.
Stay in touch with us. Like Cloe said, maybe this is the beginning of your healing. You are not alone.
Self Healing
