Re: distance varies with excitement level.
Four Point Plan of action for me:
A) During penetration (and indeed hand jobs too!) I want to:
1. "feel" more horny
2. "feel" more sensation along my shaft (most nerves feel numb)
Compared to age 20 or so my whole shaft was just a swirling mass of eletric energy and I could, at times, feel what I can only describe as an eletric pulse from my c*ck and through my body. That no longer happens at all, sadly).
B) Then, at the point of cllmax, I want to:
3. "feel" the release moment when ejaculate is released into my tubes.
4. Secondly, I want to "feel" it being pumped/expelled by "uncontrollable" muscle spasms along my c*ck.
I have jacked off almost daily for 20 years, so sure looks like I'm now paying the price! I am hoping that by "cutting back" and only ejaculating 2-3 times a week that my sexual energy levels will rise, and more "feeling" of the moment of release are felt! I am also going to kegel myself for 3 months and hope to develop muscles that will kick into action "uncontrollably". when I started the kegels last week, I could hardly feel any movement whatsoever. Now there is some change, but I understand it will be at least 3 weeks.
Anyway, Santa, there are my 4 Christmas wishes for improving "my cllmax"!
In the meantime, I've brought my wife to cllmax the past two nights via penetration and jacking off - the sad thing for me is that neither is doing little for me right now.