Re: 3 feet is VERY impressive

Have no idea why you take so long to cum. If I'm low on semen, then it takes me a while. We go back to foreplay. Then try again.

A good doctor will help you solve your problems one by one. You should be able to talk to the doc as you do me. Sex is a very important part of life...it's part of medicine. With my doctor, I can discuss anything, and do.. He is interested in making my sex life better. But your doc is right, you cannot expect a 40 year old body to respond like a 20 year old. When your 60, you will not be as active as you are now. Fact of life.

I have no idea about KY heat lotion for oral sex. It might say on the package. This is a gray area for me. It doesn't sound like you need it for intercourse, but you might need something for oral to cut down friction. If so, try looking in your favorite store and reading packages for digestable or maybe even flavored lube.
Move up to 2004. :)
You take aspirin for a headache and v1agra for sex. When you take v1agra while alone, you do not need to jerk off to clean your pipes. But you can. You just need to think about sex. It makes your penis feel like your having sex and it does it for you...even while you try to sleep!
It is extremely pleasurable and quite a very NEW experience.
Almost like having a hand job with an invisible hand! For me anyway. Your body's best reaction is the one when you didn't use it for a day or so. 100mg at that time has the same power of an interplanetary ballistic cruise missile! It will redefine what it means when you say you "cock is waking up". Your cock feels like it's taking over your body. Huge and throbbing. You can't believe what is happening to you. I'd put money on it. Then you feel so good after...with lots of energy and ready to take on the world.
And you feel so incredibly SEXUAL! And people notice this energy reflected in your face and smile.

3 or 4 days of abstaining ought to be long enough.

I agree with the ball cooling...I've done that for a long time off and on. Since we both have vasectomys, there is no outlet for sperm like there used to be so there could be some pressure if your very active until your blood absorbs it. So cool water would help.

Good luck !