i've heard this "i only fantasize about him" line with many a curezone poster throughout the years...and i'm not buy'n it. you can, it's a free country. i tend to think that he's looking elsewhere because of something she is doing in the relationship. these things tend to have a direct link to the woman's behavior (even though she might seen sincere). that's the first place i'd start. and that she turned him down only once in 20 years??? come on, friend, i bet you believe that spending trillions will get us out of the recession, too. too many red flags for me to go along and drink the kool-aid. but, don't let me hamper you from enjoying a second glass...