i don't make the rules, i acknowledge them.

that's what i do. trust me, if there's a guy on this board that understands women more than mccainster, i haven't met him yet. i'm pro-women...just read the archives over the years and read all the thank you's regarding "mtnnndewww", "bush/cheney", and all the other alias' out there in the archive records. what i do see in many, many women is what dr. laura calls "the gotcha wife". boy, do i ever see that in life! a lot of wives out there look to a husbands's negatives with fervor vs. delight in their positives...just waiting to announce "gotcha"! you can steer clear all you want, 18837, but i strike nerves in people because truth hurts. yes, guys work a lot. yes, women work a lot. yes, life is stressful. it's been stressful...forever. women control the sexual power in a relationship. they turn it on and turn it off. husbands, generally speaking, stay faithful and sexually alert when their wives keep sexually fresh and responsive. women have to feel the need, the experience. guys just need a place. it's really quite easy to keep a guy happy if you really want to, ladies. some of you just don't want to put in that much effort. fine and dandy with me, but is that a chance you want to take with your marital investment? Tweet