YES, group hug!!! EDITED
I have no misconceptions about you, Soulful Survivor. I know very well you don't male bash, far from it. My experiences have taught me to be very intuitive (sensitive, WARM,... "thank you God").
I understand very well that "happiness is contagious" for an accident victim, and serenity's life long health benefit.
Happy, easy going, and just people (settled in their conscience) are more likely to retain good health in their old age (barring extensive physical and permanent damage). Only SELF can have serenity (the real healer) and only SELF can have a conscience [settled].
This has even been recognized in the academic world as Psychoneuroimmunolgy and Psychobiology, but widespread acceptance of this would put the medical profession out of business, so, officially, it is "quackery".