Re: relationships
Yes, and those relationships that are Mother Virgin, Wife Whore. Now those are very special too.
Zoe, you know it's a minefield. If you are very very lucky, you end up traversing this relationship thing without being blown up. But you know and I know that a woman's heart and mind are as connected as your thyroid and adrenals LOL! For some of my own, and my girlfriends relationships, it has always been, what doesn't kill you makes you stronger..And oh yes, at 51, I am pretty strong. Perhaps a bit cynical too?
When my present husband tries to egg me on, I diffuse, diffuse, diffuse. Molly don't play that anymore. You want to say something meaningful to me? Something that makes sense? Well then do so, or I'm leaving and going shopping...yes, I've got the credit card, so you better just decide to spill what the hell is wrong with you. He would much rather get into a deep, philosophical discussion than to have me pissed off at the mall. He now knows that his level of stupidity is directly proportional to a $100 or $400 pair of new boots.
Insecurities? Wow, how do you resolve those? How deep they go, eh? We all have them to some degree. And discovering your mates takes some time. And when you finally discover it, what do you do with it? Tap it away with EFT if you can get close enough to them? To what degree can you live with it? It's the bar Zoe. Each person has their bar.....
Soul Survivors bar is very very high. And can you blame her? She is the epitome of what doesn't kill you.....! I would like to be in her circle of girlfriends, it would feel like a womb I bet.
I bet that man you were with was incredible. Everything great on paper. Do you know what happened to the poor guy? What a horrible insecurity. It must have torn him apart.
I'm really waxing philosophical today. Sheesh.
Molly