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Thanks for the input SoulfulSurvivor.

The original poster of this thread hasn't replied yet and I'm thinking it might have something to do with the kind of replies she got. In my oipinion they were in themselves sort of abusive, no matter how well meant. If she actually was in serious trouble, I'm sure the answers here have accomplished nothing more than scaring her away and getting herself even more involved with someone many here seem to fear is no good for her.


I'm not a man but I think there's some serious male bashing going on in this thread as well as weird assumptions about women.

I think it is a good idea for everyone, what ever experiences we have, to be a bit humble and careful in giving advice. Someone might take it, for all the wrong reasons.

I'm glad for you but you are far from the only "Survivor" in this world SoulfulSurvivor. Neither does it neccessarily follow that you are the most fit to give advice because you are a survivor.

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