"my boyfriend was hiding things from me and was in a woman hating mentality."
Uh....not to be mean, but what on earth possessed you to enter into ANY type of relationship with someone that hates women, regardless of previous relationships???? Using previous experiences to excuse hatred for another gender is inexcusable and REEEEEEEKS of serious issues.
If it were me, I would leave and never look back. I would take the time to reflect on why I chose such a jackass, find those attributes within my Self (my Life's Spark) and develop them further, and put relationships on the back burner until I became comfortable enough to learn that I do not have to choose a toxic partner.