You might consider looking into Dr Hulda Clark 's method of treating cancer. It has helped many people. Another alternative I know of, that helps cancer, is The Vibe Machine. More than a few termanal cancer patients have gone into full remission with this treatment. I believe the website is www.vibe.com
I will be praying for you and your wife. Whether you consider yourself religious or not, Jesus is always willing to extend His healing touch. It is through HIm that healing happens, whether miraculous or scientific. Just breathe deep and accept that His healing touch is washing over both of you. Through Jesus you are healed!