Thanks for sharing your story; it has been a tremendous comfort for me. Why? Because I just had to tell my own sister, who had chosen not to care about me for over 30 yrs, that I was not going to let her back into my life. She had chosen to parrot the lies of ANOTHER narcissist in my life-my brother. Both my mother and brother were very abusive to me and then lied about what they did (or chose to be totally silent. Neither are acceptable to me.) Now, to keep THEM out of my life, I had to keep HER out. I will not let ANYONE come into my life if they are willing to lie about abuse or SIDE WITH THOSE WHO DO.
My main narcissist is my husband. HE lies up a storm about what he has done. Just know that there is tremendous comfort if YOU KNOW THE TRUTH. To me....."Truth is Jesus' middle name--"I am the Way, THE TRUTH, and the Life." So even if NPDs lie about everything on this earth, in this life, there will come a day when all that stops. It's over. It's the END. They cannot lie anymore. Whoopadeedoo!